This girl that I loved broke up with me about three month ago

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2016-11-04 17:32:52 Post No. 17734498
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Anonymous 2016-11-04 17:32:52 Post No. 17734498 [Report]

This girl that I loved broke up with me about three month ago because she said she couldn't handle a relationship and wasn't ready. She hadn't been in a relationship in well over a year, and had just kept to casual things. However, while we were dating she said she felt like she was fucking up and felt a lot of anxiety over it and called it off. Now she's single again and not committing to anything. She said she wants to come back when she feels that she IS actually ready for a relationship, because she said she does love me too, but we have barely spoken since the break up.

What's the best way to initiate reattraction and get her to start texting me again. Because when we do text, which isn't often, she just let's the conversation fall off every time.

I've been on other dates and stuff since then, but this is the girl I want.

Anonymous 2016-11-04 17:53:22 Post No.17734536
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Anonymous 2016-11-04 17:53:22 Post No.17734536 [Report]

You dont' reach out to her at all.

That's your best fucking move... seriuosly listen to me.

Anonymous 2016-11-04 17:55:32 Post No.17734540
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Anonymous 2016-11-04 17:55:32 Post No.17734540 [Report]

>>17734536
this really is your best bet

Anonymous 2016-11-04 17:56:00 Post No.17734543
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Anonymous 2016-11-04 17:56:00 Post No.17734543 [Report]

>>17734498

give her space to miss you m8.

Anonymous 2016-11-04 18:07:09 Post No.17734569
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Anonymous 2016-11-04 18:07:09 Post No.17734569 [Report]

"Not ready for a relationship" = not really that into you.

Move on.

Anonymous 2016-11-04 18:09:53 Post No.17734575
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Anonymous 2016-11-04 18:09:53 Post No.17734575 [Report]

>>17734540
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>>17734536

Okay guys, I'll take your advice. I know her pretty well, and she's definitely reverted to her more wild tendencies from before we were dating. Like I can tell she's avoiding serious thoughts right now, because she's prone to depression. I'll just keep leaving her be and hope for the best later on. Like I don't think she'll forget the things we said.

Anonymous 2016-11-04 18:54:07 Post No.17734678
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Anonymous 2016-11-04 18:54:07 Post No.17734678 [Report]

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I mean, she was, like two weeks after the relationship ended she told me she still loved me and wanted to come back. Like, I believe her sincerity. I know in some cases it's a tired old platitude, but I know her well enough to know that's not entirely the case. But the question is, how do you reattract someone. I'll wait until she comes back around but I want to be able to reattract her, you know?

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