been reading 4chan for quite awhile now but first time posting.
fiancee dumped me last week been drunk ever since.
5 years together
end of high school into adult life
fought in Afghanistan, she helped me
literally was the voice of reason in my head
" im sorry anon you mean very much to me and always will, theres nothing you can say or do, i dont want you anymore."
already dating guys
what do i do? how do i move on?
>>17733458
I know its a cliché but, it DOES get better with time. I'm not gonna lie, your situation is fucked up. Don't do anything stupid, but have fun.
If she dumped you and is already dating other guys, then don't worry about her, she is a child emotionally. You deserve better. She was your high school sweetie, rarely those work out and there is better out there for you.
What you need to do is immediately forgive her, she is a human and is going to do stupid shit. No one is perfect and exempt from doing stupid shit. Now is a good time to work on yourself and make yourself a better person.
>>17733458
https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/pieces-mind/201207/radical-acceptance
Good luck anon
>>17733597
This
>>17733458
You have to realize that due to the child's mentality all women have, they're not capable of love or anything that requires taking responsibility.
>>17733567
>it DOES get better with time
Time and distance. Gotta have both. If you cling, the pain will stay as fresh as ever.
>>17733458
What branch bro? Marine or Army?