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Whenever I meet a woman I immediately begin fantasizing about dating and falling in love with her. I'm 28 and it hasn't stopped. It's been this way since I was a kid.
Most recently I've "fallen" for a friend's apartmentmate. She's cute, has similar taste in literature, is an old school feminist like myself, not a SJW tumblr idiot, but we've only hung out a few times. It feels strained because I don't want to approach her because if it didn't work out it would be awkward between myself and my other friends that live in the apartment.
On top of that I may bump into another woman in a few days and "fall in love" with her too.
I want to be a strict monogamist, but this mental problem kills my chances.
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>>17733260
Be a man. Start having more sex, pay prostitutes if needed. That way u will learn to have sex without falling in love. From there, its easy peezy
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>>17733277
I don't want to be a stereotypical man. I want to control my emotions and find a woman I'm compatible with then settle down.
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>>17733277
I'll probably fall in love with them too. My brain doesn't listen to reason.
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The problem here OP is that you as a child had this fantasy about falling in love.. but you never did. That fantasy has stuck with you through the years.
You need to go out and get laid a bunch to get you out of this "pussy on a pedistal" mentality. If you don't, you'll never make it.
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>>17733390
I want to add to this:
You need to date a bunch and have your heart broken. That'll set you straight.
Godspeed.
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>>17733394
I had my heart broken. Now I'm more of a prick than I used to be. I want to fall in love again, but not with every woman who appears in front of me. I also overthink the whole process instead of seeing how it goes. This young lady could be a good fit, but I'll probably screw it up.
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