I 70 matches with 8-10/10 girls on tinder, how do i have

Btw im a 19 year old virgin

Guys please im desperate

You show them a picture of yourself and ask them if they want to have sex.

Use a condom too.

>>17731147
Well they already saw my picture since its tinder.. Asking for sex sounds creepy af and does it even work? The girl must be a total slut to say yes to that

Message them and don't come off as an autist? Just ask one of them out for a drink and see where it goes

>>17731149
Im a social retard, been on one date and it was horrible. You think id get better with girls even if i went on dates while being a walking cringe compilation?

>>17731137

If you have 70 matches with 8-10's and you're not bullshitting then you likely are very good looking, just feign confidence through messages and get something going with them, you have 70 opportunities to try and fail. Set up something with one of them where there seems to be some decent banter, I know it's cliche but just hanging and watching movies is more than fine unless the girl particularly feels like getting done up and going out for drinks/clubs.

>>17731137
>>17731148

>Asking for sex sounds creepy af and does it even work? The girl must be a total slut to say yes to that

I'm sorry, kid, but you can't troll Tinder for sex but also complain about sluts. Either you want random sex or you don't.

>>17731200
Im not lying, girls probably think im good looking and they often compliment me for it. I have around 9-10 good girl friends with whom i can talk with ease, but whenever i talk to a girl i like, im instantly a fucking retard. I guess i'll just have to go through all the awkward dates untill i can act as a normal human with girls i like. And thank you for responding

>>17731151
First of all you have to build your own self confidence, try doing stuff that you aren't comfortable with, make spontaneous decisions like taking a trip to a new part of the country by yourself, learn how to talk to people by going to talks, bars, whatever. Surely the fact that you are matching 8-10/10s on tinder must be boosting your self confidence?

Secondly, are you looking for a girlfriend or a hookup? You gotta think about what you want. As long as you aren't begging for sex then you should be ok, I'd say if you're looking for a hookup then I'd be honest to them, saying that you're not looking for anything too serious but you'd like to go get a drink with them cause they seem cool. As long as you don't come across as thirsty then you'll find some girls will probably feel the same

>>17731204
Im not complaining, id have sex with a slut any day, its just that idk how to let them know im only interested in sex and nothing else.
Yeah, i know, im an autist when it comes to girls

>>17731211
>>17731211
Yeah my self confidence needs boosting for sure, thats one of the reasons i tried tinder. And yes, getting constant matches boosted my confidence.. for a week or two.
Also, im only looking for a hookup, having a gf right now would be too much trouble.
I think i'll try going to bars or something like that to find new friends or just socialise cause that sounds fun.
You give great advice btw

>>17731213
tinder is a fuckapp and most of the girls are there to fuck. stop overthinking this shit you are not looking for a relationship nor are they. meet and if you like fuck

>>17731285
Idk, most girls seem like good girls who wouldnt fuck during the first date

>>17731296
you are kidding me right? It's a fuckapp. Some want to get to know the guy they will fuck but that is the reason people use tinder. Stop trying to make these girls into princesses. As you do they are fucking other matches the get from other guys. You get 10 matches and they are getting 30. There was a femanon on her the other day taking about fucking 5 guys over the last couple months but had dated 10 but gotten a shitton of matches. Not looking for a relationship but wanting to fuck and move on.

>>17731148
>>17731213

>wants to fuck a slut on tinder
>afraid said slut will be a slut
>???