My girlfriend (let's call her Jess) is the only one I've

>>17729297
I'm not really sure what question you're asking. You have too much going on in the thread.

You're probably not going to get both of these girls (even British girls aren't like that, are they?) so the best you can do is choose one and go for it.

>>17729297
>Is it just because she's different and would represent a new experience? Reliving the 'honeymoon period'?
It'll be this. You've been together 7 years and it sounds like your relationship's gone a little stale and you're only staying because there's no reason to leave.

>>17729297

Don't be tempted to choose your girlfriend out of laziness just because you've built a life with her. Just because you've been with someone for a while and love them doesn't make them your soulmate.

>>17729306
Definitely this. Plus you just bought a house together. Thats a lot to throw away but if you're honest with yourself its probably a case that you're ready to move on. Sorry it happens.

>>17729307
At the same time, don't be tempted to choose your friend just because she's new and exciting and 'the grass is greener on the other side.'

>>17729322
I know and that's one of my worries. If I break up with Jess there's not even a guarantee that Alex would want a relationship with me anyway, so instantly the grass might not be greener. Not to mention years down the road.

Would you be willing to break up with your girlfriend, without any hint more than you might currently have that your friend would want a relationship with you?

It's one thing to admit your relationship is over and break up with her so you can both move on, but it's another to not break up with her because you fear being alone if your friend doesn't want you.

>>17729342

I'm not sure. It's one of many worries I have. I want to do the right thing but I'm wary I might end up being selfish.

I still love my girlfriend, but I'm in love with my friend. But viewed from the outside of one relationship and the inside of another that could all change again.

England stoked for Twin Peaks too?

7 years without sex? How can she be worth it?

>>17729360
Exactly! There's definitely an element of what you think is more exciting at play here.
The thing is you'd probably be perfectly happy with both girls, you say you share a lot in common with them, but you have to pick one and make the effort to make it work.

>>17729297
How upset would you be to end up with neither? You need to tread careful.

Ask your GF if you can take your friend on as a fuck buddy since shes healed up.

>>17729419
HUH HUH!