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Sup folks. Sorry in advance for my engrish.
I went to Canada this summer (I'm from France) and met a girl. It was brief and it didn't happen in the ideal context (work stuff). Still, she was cute, we talked a bit, blahblah. I could tell she was being genuinely nice and I asked her fb, but I suddenly had to leave.
The thing is, I'm going back in december because of work but with more free time, but it's been like 5 months now. I tried to talk to her, asking what I could visit around the city etc and she replied instantly sending me pics with cool places and asking for how lonh I was gonna stay. She ended up saying something like "you can ask me anything anytime" but that's it. I was expecting her to say something like meeting each other because I'm a fag. Should I go straight and ask her? Or she's not interested?
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>>17728448
>Should I go straight and ask her? Or she's not interested?
She seems to be. Maybe she just sees you as a friend, I mean, it's a possibility, but I would bet on "she likes you".
Ask her out, but don't be too disappointed if she says "no". After all, you are coming and going, and she might want a stable boyfriend.
Talking about that, you sure she is single?
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Just ask her, you coward. What's the worst that could happen?
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>>17729583
I'm pretty sure she is single, but you're right. A relationship would be impossible. Still, I've had brief "relationships" in between but that brief moment with her just stucked in my mind. Even with other girls I kept thinking about her, even to the point that I didn't give a shit about distance, stable relationship, blabla. What makes you think she likes me, btw? I thought she was being just friendly, but I obviously shouldn't expect something else as I didn't even ask her to see each other.
>>17729595
Dunno, I'm about to ask her directly, but that might make me look desperate and I hate it.
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>>17729637
Well, the point is, unless you are literally Quasimodo, most girls will give you a chance. And they know when we like them.
If she was really exited to see you, I'm pretty sure she is at least willing to give you a chance.
I didn't brought up the negatives as a way of saying "don't do it". I think you should do it (given my limited information).
I just want you to keep in mind that if she says no, there are plenty of reasons that are really beyond you. Don't take it too personally.
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>>17729653
Thanks anon. I'm definitely gonna try and no, I won't take it personally. It's just the circumstances that makes me feel weird doing this kind of stuff (distance, etc). I guess I had this Lost in Translation retarded fantasy somehow.
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>>17729794
>I guess I had this Lost in Translation retarded fantasy somehow.
Being nervous is fine. Idealizing stuff too much can be your downfall, though. Take it one day at a time and see where it goes. Good luck!
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