I don't know if there's even advice for this but what

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next day I told my parents about, my gf and sister were already looking for me, said something happened. But they didn't say what obviously. I told them everything. Keep in mind, I come from pretty conservative family. I'm not a conservative but my father went absolutely crazy when I told him. He hates gays. He hates anyone who's not straight. My mother's the same. No, we didn't know about my sister, I knew her boyfriends but I guess she's bi, or something. Now I don't really care. But basically my father went fucking crazy, he literally wanted to put a fucking bullet in her head. My mom was just crying, trying to stop my father. After some time he calmed down and also started crying. I told them I can't face her, nor my girlfriend. I told them I need some time. I'm staying at my friends house now, didn't tell my parents where, I don't my sister or girlfriend to find me. very far away from my home. I blocked my sister and girflriend from phone, facebook etc I just can't face them.

My plan is to just move on. The problem is, how? My family is in ruins now. my sister and girlfriend apparently wants to find me and talk to me. My parents don't want to see my sister, I mean my parents are not that bad. They have their views but they're not kkk redneck tier, but they don't want to do anything with my sister, or my ex-gf. If somebody fucks up real big time in family, they don't wanna hear it. I don't think they will ever talk to her again. All my relatives are also like this. Got hundreds of messages from my family and friends. Everytime when I will be for some holiday, people will look at me. It's inescapable. I feel like I need to move to another country. Change fucking name or some shit like that. I don't want people to look at me like that.

>>17728419
I know that some people will suggest me to face-off with my sister & girlfriend. But why? It already happened. How can I forgive them? I feel like it's not something you can just forgive. I can't look at them. I feel like if I ever met them again, I would kill them. I don't even know what should I ask here? What advice? I'm completely lost. I guess I will get a job around here, get an apartment, and then move out to another country.

sorry for a very long post guys. I tried to make this as short as possible. Not really good at writing.

congrats on your west virginia family...all god fearin and shit but also just plain fucked up.

anyhow, chill out, be a man and just go about your business like normal.

When they try to explain, just say no thanks.
Wish them the best and move on.

>>17728438
I really wish It would be that simple like you see it. "wish them the best" yeah right. But I don't imagine ever looking at my sister ever again. Feel like I'm done, and need to burn every bridge I have and start over.

Also it's not west virginia. My family might vote for trump, but they're not ultra conservative in that they want n-words to hang. I really doubt they would care that much if my sister came out as lesbian. But this is too much for them.

>>17728452
then pack your bags and move on.

>>17728423
You don't owe your sister and ex gf anything. You did nothing wrong and a family member and gf betrayed you. I understand your humiliation, but you speaking openly has made it public so you cannot complain much about that. If you want to leave town go ahead but your sister and ex are the one's people will be talking about. Your parents will finally calm down a little unless your sister and ex become a couple.

Why not fuck them both

>>17728460
yeah, but I just know that people who know me will look at me differently know. "oh it's that guy with lesbian sister who cheated with his girlfriend". Doesn't matter that I'm not the responsible party. I will feel embarrassment, I feel like I need to find new friends, new place. Start again.
>>17728470
I know you're joking but I'm completely not attracted to my sister. I've seen her naked multiple times and not once did I ever fantasized about fucking her. Nothing. Never had incest fantasies in my life. And I did fucked my girlfriend, and look how that turned up.

>>17728473
Man, that's some fucked shit. One of my exes left me in a somewhat similar way. So let me put one thing into perspective. Generally, when someone has feelings or desires towards the opposite sex they won't branch out and pursue it unless they're environment is comfortable and stable. So while it's shitty what happened. Take solive in the fact that you were probably one of the best things that happened to her. Not the other way around. You get punished for creating a good relationship. But hey man we can't win em all. Only thing you can do is move forward. For your sister. I guess it really doesn't matter. I wouldn't talk to her, but that's me. It's not like it matters who she is. Your girl would have done it with another gf eventually. It is shitty but the third person hardly ever matters. If not them. Would have been someone else.

>>17728495
Same sex*
Derp

>>17728473
>I feel like I need to find new friends, new place. Start again.
Ok if you have the means then do. I would

>>17728495
look I wouldn't even react that way if that was some random girl. I already got cheated. It hurt, but I didn't move out to another city because of that. But that was my sister. My fucking sister who I trusted all my life. That's what hurts me the most. I don't agree it doesn't matter, it matters very much.

>>17728517
Sorry I meant specifically for the cheating. Yeah I agree your sister is a bitch. I'd have probably knocked her in the tits a few good times.

>>17728517
Not right now OP but one day perhaps your sister will come and apologize. I agree the most hurtful part is it was your sister. The fact your gf cheated is secondary and glad however you don't want anything to do with her either thoug

>>17728528
I don't even know if I will forgive her, even in 20 years. I guess 20 years is a long time but I feel like every time I will look at ther I'll have an image of my sister in bed with my ex. I hope we get invaded by north koreans or something, so I don't have to face her

OP your sister is a fucking cunt, you did nothing wrong
Block her and your gf out of your life, stop asking why this happened and wishing it hadn't
It did, time to put it behind and move on

You feeling that your family and friends will look down on you is normal, but if they're truly your friends they'll support you
Same for your family, except they won't care as much aside from the initial shock due to the natural distance between you and other relatives (not talking about your parents)

You shouldn't feel ashamed, and I think that shame will disappear in a couple of months naturally

Sorry for the messy text but I'm on my phone and can't be bothered writing properly and with due punctuation, as my phone is kinda fucked

Why not just forgive them? Maybe start having 3 ways or at least jerking it while they fool around? Sounds great to me. It really isn't that big of a deal. Your gf wasn't infected with a dick

>>17728561
this 2bh

>>17728545
Forgiving her and she having remorse for what she did and coming to you one day to apologize are two very different things. You don't have to forgive. What is telling however is she and your ex are not offering an apology now but trying to blame you for misunderstanding what you saw with your eyes.

>>17728620
the only thing I know that they were looking for me, my parents mentioned this. I keep contact with them and they said that, but my father said to get the fuck out of his property. I don't know what she wants me to tell. I only know what they told me that night, half-drunk.
>>17728607
that's real life, not some cheap porn. this doesn't feel hot to me at all.

>>17728630
>half-drunk
being drunk didn't cause this and for all you know this has been going on awhile, likely it has

>>17728637
look, I already know my life is a lie. Maybe it was, maybe it wasn't. I don't need the details of their lesbian relationship

>>17728417
Talk to your sister and gf about it. You're not going to get anywhere by running away

>There is this girl that i used to fuck sometimes, really attached to her i could have probably be in couple with her by the end of summer if she was a little bit more talking about her feelings.
>She revenged couple me and now feels good into her relationship.

We talked a lot during last months and it was always ambiguous. We talk about our past and she tells me how she felt for me when i didn't care.
I tell her that i actually cared and still care, that i'm hurt she has a boyfriend and shit.
We see eachother downtown a bit drunk but nothing apparent, we talk about how she wants to kiss me but can't because bf, doesn't want to justify to friends ect...
I tell her that i'm too weirded out by what's happening but that i'm ready to be brave and commit to her.
She fucking kisses me.
We kiss again, goodbye this time.

2 days later she's really mad at me, and tells me that i don't attract her anyhow ect...
I feel hurt and i tell her, but deep inside i feel like she's conveincing herself that her bf is great and shit i was starting to love her.

I talk to one of my best friend about this, ask him to talk to his gf (real good friend of the girl).
He does, she sends me a message "For the sake of you mental health we shouldn't talk or see eachother for an undefine time, i'm NOT intrested in you. I'm NOT willing to be with you. So yeah too bad but bye"

I actually talk to her and tell her that i don't trust her until she says that to me eyes in the eyes. So i eat with her tomorrow.

Everytime we see each others i feel like she loves me, her eyes, she touches me, she says things to me.
I wonder if she'll be honest with what she said or not.

Do i still have a chance when she gets bored of her boyfriend (not right now i don't even want to fuck her after what she said) ?

I maybe fucked up but i think complexity in a relation is a good thing for long term relationship...

>>17728667
I don't wanna hear them. I don't wanna hear excuses. It doesn't matter, the details don't matter.
>>17728672
she sounds really mad. not in a good way. you should probably create another thread anyway anon...

>>17728726
Not used to /adv/ but i'm too wasted to create another thread
What do you mean by she sounds really mad ?
She said to me that if she kissed me it's because she wasn't thinking and had no idea who to choose between me and her bf.

i don't think she's crazy she's pretty fucking smart finished 2nd in preparatory classes all department.

>>17728747
women do that very often, they have a boyfriend but they keep their options open. I'm sure you're not the only one besides her boyfriend.

Convert to islam and kill them both