Love is fleeting from my relationship and I'm starting to

>>17727414
>I don't deserve her
yes you do dude, or do you think she is just an idiot for dating you? in fact, she has put herself in a position where she doesnt deserve you.

>>17727426
We both have put on wieght, me about 20 pounds, and her probably 40-60 pounds, but I don't know exactly because she's always been conscience about her wieght, so I didn't exactly read her scale or push her too far on it. There are times where I'll say I like her fat, but I think it's out of love or because I'm horny and find her more attractive. And she's always been quick to tell me she likes me with more fat then skinnier. If I'm not in the mood then I start to find it disgusting. I can't force her to live her life my way, I don't want her to do that. But her choice to gain all this weight is putting a wedge in between us. I just feel I don't deserve her because I'm not perfect and have many faults as well.

>>17727501
well if you feel you dont deserve her then why not dump her?

>>17727506
Because I'm sentimental and don't like to let go of things. It is becoming tiring though, I mess up, and I tell her, you deserve better. I just told her, as a friend on the outside, I'd tell you to leave me. One side of me says, "there's a reason why you're seeking love elsewhere, just let her go." And there's another side that says, "you grown to love her, don't give up yet. Maybe she'll improve." my honest fear is that we get married and she gets even more fat and then I'm stuck with her and kids. Physical attraction is not the only thing I seek, but its important.

throw a blanket over that hoe.

>>17727518
well if you dont do anything you will just be miserable and end up driving her to dump you like you apparently ask her to, or yeah you will end up married to her and she will definitely gain weight and be fat and you will get fatter too and you will both just be together and be miserable