(40, m) been married a year to my wife (40), after a two-year

*bump*

Roll over, no eye contact = prone bone time

>>17724361
You need to talk to her frankly about it. Be compassionate. Good Luck!

Why did you make 2 threads for this?

Also, the romance died because she feels like she's stuck with you now. Before, she always had the option to break up. It's a mental thing.

Options are limited. Either you talk it out, you start a polyamorous relationship (which is stupid but to each their own) or you get yourself a mistress for hot kinky shit.

I don't think she was ever into it,bro. I think the "passionate" days were just her faking it for your benefit and you not noticing. She probably always hated sex/had a low libido, and is only now being honest about it. It's ok. Not everyone in the world likes sex contrary to what the media tells you.

She's not attracted to you

Well that AND you're at the point where most women stop putting out once she's secured your commitment for nothing in return

At best you may get pity sex once a year

It's already over

Find a younger chick

>>17724939
No, that's not it. Older women are usually way hornier than women in their 20s. At the very least, they will usually find one or two things they really like at this point. I think this lady is asexual, or something like it. There may be a psychological cause, or it may just be how she is wired. I think you should talk with her about what is going on. Be gentile though, chances are she will be anxious about it. And this advice is coming from a woman in her 20s who is asexual.

>>17724487
Almost every morning. Cuddle, hand up shirt, morning wood, slide down the undies a bit annnnd I'm in