Hi /adv/,
hope you can help me, because this issue is making me feel very depressed.
So, almost 2 years since last time I fucked someone (my ex gf).
My best friend's friend starts dating again after an 8 year old relationship.
I start talkin to her over facebook chat.
After a month, I had to play guitar at a friend's bday in a bar. She comes to see me (with two of my friends that know her for a long time already).
She tells me that liked the show, we talked for an hour.
Some days later I invite her to go out for a drink.
We get drunk, she comes with me to my place.
I'm rock solid while making out, once we go to my bedroom, put on the condom and my wiener dies...I just couldn't get an erection anymore.
I'm devastated, did anybody go through this at some point?
I'm really depressed and have no one to discuss this with.
What shall I do?
At some point in life, it happens to all of us.
My only /adv/ for you is to try to relax and then go for it one more time.
Remember, as long as you keep trying, you can never lose.
>>17723464
Do you like this girl? Do you think she is pretty or you're just doing it for sport?
>>17723517
I'm 30 and it has yet to happen to me.
>>17723596
Glad to know you are a sex machine
>>17723585
I really like her anon. It's been almost 2 years since I liked someone.
>>17723464
Cialis?
>>17723654
That doesn't work if you can actually have at least an erection
>>17723654
Pretty much this. I used it cuz i had performance anxiety and my dick would drop as soon as i needed to get in. Bought the 20mg pill i think, cut it in 1/8 and never had issuses after it.
>>17723464
Do not worry about it. Seriously, this is just something that happens more and more the more you think about it.
It has gotten to a stage for me, where I tell women that I'm slow in the beginning, because I don't trust someone that easily. Women are more understanding than you'd think. The less you worry, preferrably not at all, the easier it'll be for you to remain an erection. Always remember, you shouldn't feel forced to be diamonds for the entirety of hookup-time. I think your night would have ended better if you didn't hide in the bathroom when putting the condom on - it makes you subconsciously think that you need to be ready to go whenever you're in the same room as the girl. Don't do that. Make putting a condom on, no matter how unsexy it is, something you're doing when you're next you her, and don't rush it.
Never rush. Never worry. You'll be fine.
The easy answer is
>it's been two years, and the last time was with your ex. It's totally understandable.
Don't let the fact that this happened fuck you your mind. Treat it as a hiccup.
One question:
Did you think about your ex, or the fact that it had been that long?
>>17723698
>>17723698
Maybe at a subconcious level I might have thought about her, but not sure. I was 100% concentrated in making that night a great night for this girl, but I guess the result was the total opposite of that.
Now I dunno what to tell her. I dunno how to go on. We are still talkin on whatsapp and fb, but very lil and I dunno what she thinks about what happened.
I really, really appreciate your answer. There is nobody I can talk to about this.
Thanks anon
>>17723693
Cialis works on physical issues.
>>17723464
I think you want to meet her first. Probably someone messed you up already and you don't want to go through that 5h1t again.