Guess is true what they say... you cant fuck a personality.
I'm 30, drank around the country in my twenties, found a great chick, went to Community college and now i'm looking at entry level internships.... but that's whatever...
I'm concerned with this chick... my GF, she's so fricken awesome for me that I cant stand it.
We've been together to 2 years and now I'm just not attracted to her anymore. I literally avoid having sex with her (and I'm running out of excuses) Is this just a thing people go thru this late in relationships? I've never had the patience in my past relationships to get this far. And I'm starting to think it might not be worth it anymore. Not just for my sake but hers as well.
Truth be told that I wasn't really attracted to her from the beginning but I forced it. She was my best friend and I wanted her around. we had so much fun. Granted were not having all that much fun anymore since I'm working AND going to school and shes working and seeing her kid on the weekends.
When we do have sex I need to make sure I haven't jerked off in at least 2 days or I just don't finish... and it REALLY bothers her when i don't.
I wont find another woman like her but avoiding the other women in my life that want me is starting to become difficult.
Is this just normal in a Long term relationship or should I bail and focus a little more on someone who can make me happier in the sack?
God that sounds shitty... but i'm trying here!
Pic related. alcohol consumption thru the roof.
No, this isn't normal a mere two years in
I think what I'll do is help her with her money situation first before I break up with her... that way if I do decide to call it quits... shes in a good spot financially.. also, this give me time to mull it all over. This upcoming summer ill have a shit job and an internship... so i'll be hood rich until i can land a decent gig.
Sometimes people fall in love and fall out of love. Just break it off with her. Of course you'll hurt her, but you'll hurt her much less now than later when she finds out your relationship is a lie.
When you break it off, then both of you can find someone you love.
UHG!!
goddamn! Ive been in this situation before and on both side of it. this ones gonna end bad. And by bad i mean I'm going to lose my best friend.
look.. i'm going with the "getting her set financially" since she still does make me happy... just not in a sexual way. ill see what happens next.
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Sex is important. Despite what people might say.
Sounds like you should end it so you can both find someone better.
Sorry brochacho.