I used to be an awful person. A banal kind of evil. I'm

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2016-10-30 23:09:20 Post No. 17720379
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:09:20 Post No. 17720379 [Report]

I used to be an awful person. A banal kind of evil. I'm trying to become better and in many ways I did grow over the years but I still catch myself fucking up on a weekly basis. It's like I'm compelled to say hurtful things when socializing in a group setting because I feel the need to quickly retort to the comments of others with something funny or clever. I never think that what I'm saying isn't alright while I'm saying it but later realize that I've crossed a line. There's this one woman who I've accidentally insulted then apologized to again and again over months. At this point I'm so embarrassed that I might just stop seeing the group of friends which she is part of. How many times can you expect someone to forgive you, really?

How do I stop being a compulsive jerk?

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:11:07 Post No.17720386
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:11:07 Post No.17720386 [Report]

>>17720379
Weed

V 2016-10-30 23:14:34 Post No.17720400
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V 2016-10-30 23:14:34 Post No.17720400 [Report]

>>17720379

Practice.

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:17:47 Post No.17720417
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:17:47 Post No.17720417 [Report]

>>17720400
The reaction is borderline pavlovian. Someone says something and I immediately respond before I even consciously process what's going on. At other times there's a lull in the conversation and I similarly immediately try to fill it.

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:21:34 Post No.17720430
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:21:34 Post No.17720430 [Report]

>>17720417
Look up "METAL N' IRON" on YouTube.
Look for his life advice videos

Dude used to be like that but he manned up.

V 2016-10-30 23:22:02 Post No.17720433
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V 2016-10-30 23:22:02 Post No.17720433 [Report]

>>17720417

Learn to shut the fuck up. I had a similar problem. I am naturally a dick. Then I realized I just had nothing to say when I wasn't being a dick.

So anyway:

1. Shut the fuck up.
2. Come up with other shit to say.

Practice this.

V 2016-10-30 23:27:25 Post No.17720459
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V 2016-10-30 23:27:25 Post No.17720459 [Report]

>>17720430

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PD5of5fK5go

>pull ups

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:28:22 Post No.17720464
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:28:22 Post No.17720464 [Report]

>>17720379

you werent bad by your own description, just ignorant.

>how do i sto[

you're already doing it. just keep catching yourself.

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:31:08 Post No.17720476
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:31:08 Post No.17720476 [Report]

>>17720459
Literally what's wrong with pull-ups.

V 2016-10-30 23:32:41 Post No.17720481
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V 2016-10-30 23:32:41 Post No.17720481 [Report]

>>17720476

>missing the point

You two deserve each other and spending time on 1/3rd pull ups.

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:33:27 Post No.17720484
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:33:27 Post No.17720484 [Report]

>>17720481
I only saw the title and your post lol, didn't open the video.

V 2016-10-30 23:34:13 Post No.17720489
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V 2016-10-30 23:34:13 Post No.17720489 [Report]

>>17720484

Shaquanda please.

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:36:13 Post No.17720494
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:36:13 Post No.17720494 [Report]

>>17720489
I'm a strong, independent black woman who needs no man, I don't have to open videos or exclude lol from my text on 4chan.

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:37:54 Post No.17720505
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:37:54 Post No.17720505 [Report]

What's wrong with pull-ups?

V 2016-10-30 23:38:34 Post No.17720509
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V 2016-10-30 23:38:34 Post No.17720509 [Report]

>>17720484

Shaquanda please. Monique!!

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:39:16 Post No.17720511
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:39:16 Post No.17720511 [Report]

>>17720509
Ok

V 2016-10-30 23:40:52 Post No.17720516
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V 2016-10-30 23:40:52 Post No.17720516 [Report]

>>17720505

They make your lats uber, to the point where they over-power your abdominals and pull your lumbar spine into a lordotic curve, increasing stress on the vertebrae and increasing risk of spinal injuries.

Pull ups 4 lyfe tho.

>>17720494

Baby don't hurt me.

Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:43:02 Post No.17720527
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Anonymous 2016-10-30 23:43:02 Post No.17720527 [Report]

>>17720516
Are chin-ups better then? Same thing?

V 2016-10-30 23:46:23 Post No.17720538
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V 2016-10-30 23:46:23 Post No.17720538 [Report]

>>17720527

I am joking. While what I described is true, you compensate for it by working abs and glutes, as well as stretching hip flexors. You should do pull ups - there is no upper back exercise like it. Chins are ok, but hit biceps way more, which you can do in many other ways.

I actually recommend doing both. But do pull ups first. You can do chins when tired.

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