I need your advice guys
I'm having a semi long distance relationship (I'm gone out of country most of the time due to work and I'm back only for two weeks every 4-5 months or so)
Today my gf said she bought a dildo and sent me pictures while shes sucking it, I didn't know what to say , I felt replaced and I told her that it doesn't turn me on and i didn't know how to react , did I overreact? Or is it a bad sign for the future to come?
What the fuck do you expect her to do when you're away? You should be happy it's a dildo and not a real guy
>>17720234
Ok. Let me get this straight.
So you only see your girlfriend for maybe a month out of the year. She goes out of her way to purchase a sex toy, take sexy pictures with it and send to you as a way of showing you that she wants to stay sexually connected to you while you're gone and your FIRST reaction to your girlfriend's thoughtful, innocuous attempt to keep your sex life is alive is to feel "replaced"?
You should be thanking your lucky stars she isn't sucking actual dick while you're gone but instead you're acting like a giant fucking baby.
>>17720234
I understand where you're coming from OP. I'm in a long distance relationship as well. Seriously, don't worry. She did it to treat you and it's about you not a dildo. It's just a dildo dude. I'm not sure how to get it in your head because you're not choosing to react how you reacted, but I guess try your best to not be irrational, my dude.
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>>17720273
>you should be GRATEFUL that she's not cheating on you
This is the bullshit that leads men to be marginalized and shoot up schools and movie theaters. This shit right here and you faggots just propagate it.
OP just cheat on her first and never tell her about it. You'll never feel insecure again.
>>17720301
I dont want to cheat on her , I tried and I just couldn't if she cucks me so be it , but I cant do it , for better or worse I do love her , and i niat told her that I overreacted and that I'm considering buying a sex toy myself
>>17720326
I just* phoneposting at work is annoying