Is it ever a good idea to try and date someone you're not

In my opinion, sex and physical attraction are pretty important factors in a relationship.

So no, not a good idea just for that. If you're completely fine with that, go ahead.

>>17720220
If you don't find her attractive then just stay friends.

It really depends on whether you are a Sotapanna or not. If you are, you can have a sexless relationship like that and it's no prob

>>17720220
Sharing hobbies and getting along won't make my dick hard.

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>>17720263
I thought as much.

Now on that note, this girl on Okcupid is messaging me, she seems chill but I'm not attracted to her at all. Do people use this site for friendships and not just relationships? Should I even try to make this friendship work?

>>17720220

You have a friend. Congratulations

>>17720271
You didn't say it was online. Meet her in person and see how it goes, pictures are often not very faithful to how a person looks irl. Unless she's fat.

I've been through this twice, just give it a try, maybe you can get used to the person's face and then feel some sorta attraction to it.