I don't like going out. I'm not really good at socializing

take up a hobby or something that isn't vidya games, don't worry about meeting girls or not.

>>17717064
>How the fuck do I get to know a girl?
You go to these parties, get drunk, try to flirt with them, fail horribly due to social incompetence, wake up the next day, realise what you did, kill yourself out of humiliation. I'm up to the last one now so I can tell you it's a guaranteed to work path. You'll never have to feel crippling lonliness again.

>>17717101
I actually have plenty of hobbies, but they're all things you do alone. The not worrying part has been my strategy for several years yet here I am, on the road to kill myself or become a buddhist monk or some shit.

>>17717112
>I actually have plenty of hobbies
List them.

>>17717120
I play guitar, compose/produce music, I read, I write, I work out and I'm learning German.

>>17717192
Doesn't sound like you consider yourself good at any of them.

>>17717107
Hahah i wish i could be around when you get older and look back on this shit and just criiiiiiiiinge. Like yell at yourself in the shower to make this memory go away embarrassing.

>>17717233
>just criiiiiiiiinge
sorry but nothing in this thread made me cringe more than your post.

>>17717221
Where do you get that from? I actually do consider myself good at those things.

I'm in the same boat. Loneliness sucks. I went to a party last night and bailed after 15 minutes. Social situations drain me, man.

>>17717258
We have different definitions of good. If you were actually good at them, you'd feel content. But the fact you want to run away from them into the arms of a girl means you don't enjoy them nor are good enough at them to improve happily.

>>17717290
I do enjoy them and they make me feel happy, yet I feel I still feel lonely often. I feel like I might be running away from actually fixing the situation by spending so much time in those hobbies. They are great, yet they can't replace what I long for.

>>17717253
Other than the fact that my post was ment to signify that shits gonna get better and youll find yourself in a lasting relationship soon enough that this shits gonna seem so simple to you you wont know why you asked it in the first place, how else are you short sighted?

>>17717302
>youll find yourself in a lasting relationship soon enough
I'm 26 and I've never even held a girl's hand man. I haven't changed significantly in the last decade. Everytime I put myself out there to try and improve I feel worse than I did before. Things are not going to change.

>>17717312
>I haven't changed significantly in the last decade
Thats cause (betting) you havent done anything worth a shit to yourself and/or put yourself out of your comfort zone. You just keep going along doing the same shit but maybe in different ways and expecting different results. Am i close?

>>17717315
>Am i close?
No. I'm specifically talking about instances when I put myself out of my comfort zone. It feels so bad that I find myself more averse to doing it again afterwards.

>>17717316
>It feels so bad that I find myself more averse to doing it again afterwards

Oh so you have some sort of asbergers or some shit

>>17717321
nah I don't think so, just bad anxiety.

>>17717352
Well there you go. You are your worst enemy. Two things i dont try to "fix". Anxity and depression. Cause anytime you do it comes back "you dont understand" and i most definitly dont so, man good luck.

>>17717064
>I don't like going out.

same. not because i have anxiety or socially inept. i simply find it boring most of the time and it interferes with my training. i prefer going on a walk. only reason i go to parties or go to bars/clubs is because its all people do and i get lonely sometimes.