Be honest with me right now I know guys are not THAT picky when

>>17711721
>I know guys are not THAT picky when choosing women to fuck
Bullshit. I don't care how horny I am, would never go below a 7. MAYBE a 6 when horny and really drunk.

>When you look at the flaws do you feel disappointed with yourself?
If I go for somebody below my standards, I am not in a state to think about it too much.

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>>17711742

>I don't care how horny I am, would never go below a 7. MAYBE a 6 when horny and really drunk.

>>17711721
When I lost my virginity (at 23) I was pretty much running on pure adrenaline and could only think about how exhilarating and terrifying it was. I felt strong feelings forming towards the girl too, she was so cool and caring about it, probably the greatest act of kindness I've been afforded.

For a little while I had the wrong condoms and couldn't cum. I enjoyed making her feel good and would think about her facial expressions more than anything. I would worry that my lack of pleasure would ruin things for us.

When we started fucking regularly, a weird thought I would have was how bad stale saliva smelt, I dwelt on it for a little while and it sucked. Other than that, I was thinking about how great it felt, and of course, wether or not she was enjoying it too.

Once we got into our rhythm, and I had the right rubbers, I felt like a fucking god; light, elated, unstoppable, amazing. The good sessions made me feel exalted, I thought every part of her was gorgeous and tasted like heaven, even the soles of her feet, even her asshole. I couldn't get enough of her, I would feel how liquid smooth the skin on her back was and just imagine sinking into it while taking her from the back.

Once the good sex gave way to bad sex I started to feel anxiety, not like virgin adrenaline, just plain old 'oh god, she's not enjoying this but I'm too tired and frustrated to not cum'. I used to feel guilt for fucking poorly, which made it even harder to enjoy myself. I felt shame when her pussy wouldn't get wet.

It ended after that.

>>17711721
depends. i gagged one time when a girl had a pussy that looked like a car crash, she left immediately and I felt bad for a while.

>>17711750
Lmao that's demoralizing

>>17711721
OP make sure you clean your pussy regularly. Or else you will just smell bad down there and the act of sex will smell bad and he'll be thinking "Damn I want to just cum already and go watch TV"

Also don't just lay there

An ugly girl can still be sexy as fuck if she talks dirty and squirms around with her titties out and stuff and does nice things with her tongue. It's not hard

Sometimes I think if we all switched genders randomly all of a sudden the world would be a better place. The guys would know how to act like the sexiest girls ever, and the girls would know how to use a dick right.

Make little short breath moaning noises and any guy will still enjoy even if you're ugly

>>17711777
Those numbers

When I get down to the fucking, I just enjoy the pussy, and at the time they are all tens. Except once with a grossly fat woman, I felt disgusted. But I fucked her anyway.

>>17711721

If I'm fucking a chick that means I find her decently attractive. When I'm fucking her the only things that go through my mind have to do with how good that sloppy sock feels around my thick dick.

I've been fucking a guy recently who flat out told me he isn't attracted to me. He's also told me I am very beautiful. We've had A LOT of sex anway. I don't get it.

>>17711747
This was beautiful and depressing.
Thank you anon.

>>17711747
I like this post, summed up my last relationship perfectly.

>>17712066
He's attracted to your body. Not person attached to it

>>17712066
pussy addiction is a real illness

>>17711721
Depends. Personally I don't do sex, but 'make love' I've only been with two people. The first one was my first love, she was larger than most but I loved her to death. The second was somebody a had barely dated petite a by most beautiful and it sucked. So the only thing to be dissapointed by isn't looks but who your with. Cause the second girl turned ultra skank after dating me

>>17711742
Maximum autismo.

>>17712066
>I don't get it.
He just means he doesn't like your personality enough for a relationship, and wants you to not get clingy. Clearly he wants to smash, he's just trying to make sure you don't complain when it never goes further than that.

>>17711721
>I know guys are not THAT picky when choosing women to fuck
SOME guys aren't. I never understood them myself. And I notice not many of them have shown up to try to explain, so I wonder how numerous they actually are.

>>17712534
Guys who aren't picky? Any guy from my math class. Some of them are really good looking too. I don't know if it has to do with the fact that they have spent their life being surrounded by ugly women with high sex drive, almost every single one of them is dating really homely chick. When i see this tall blonde Dutch guy's gf I thought is this a joke? she's a total butterface, damn she must be a real freak in bed or something...It's like when you watch too much porn of a specific type of women you develop a fetish, so these guys have fetish for plain women.

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>>17711799
Checked

>>17712534
Well most guys who actually are getting laid aren't
For kind of obvious reasons really but still

I gotta like their face to have sex. Butterfaces are not attractive at all.

>>17712311
>>17712531
Unfortunately, your both wrong. That much, I know because clingy is the only thing he wants me to be and he's very open about wanting it. In fact, he had me quit my job to live with him. Once when I was working, I didn't text him for two hours after work and he was pretty mad.

I think >>17712452 might be closer.

>>17711721
I hope that my dick doesn't go soft during the act so that she won't start asking what's wrong.

>>17711721

If a guy gets legitimately grossed out during you will notice, it's next to impossible to maintain an erection in this case. I don't think guys study who they're having sex with and trying to find flaws unless they're really bored, if he's horny he will only care about how him and you are feeling and the motion of whats going on. that and touching your tits/ass.

Yeah I guess I do think about some of their flaws while we're having sex but it's not something I point out or am disappointed with.

>>17713190
To expand on this. Make sure that your ass and pussy are washed before sex.

>>17711742
>I don't care how horny I am, would never go below a 7. MAYBE a 6 when horny and really drunk

This might sound outrageous but actually when we really crunch these numbers, it's not that unreasonable.

>>17711721
Nah I'm picky af.

White blonde master taste.

Pawg for godlike and perky tits always a plus.

>>17711721
>know guys are not THAT picky when choosing women to fuck

who told you that? I would not even touch a girl with a ten foot pole unless she was a 10/10. I know retarded men pushing baby strollers because they fucked ugly fat women and I feel sorry for them. they fucked up in life so bad that is not even funny.

>>17713206
>>17713241

That's pretty cringe
Not that you're picky but that you just need to say that you're picky

>>17713471
My current gf satisfies all my tastes so it's gucci my man.

>>17713475
>my current gf
so u still have to hold the image of u being in control and able to chose other "gfs" on an anonymous board

>>17713475
Okay

>>17711721

When I am with a girl in bed I feel good, but yes, sometimes I would prefer not to see her back again.

>>17711721
I don't fuck women I'm not attracted to, regardless of their looks

But what I am attracted to depends on the person. Currently I am crushing on a short pudgy hispanic girl who looks sad all the time

>>17711742
This is true unless you're an ultra virgin

>>17713500
It really isn't that hard to date plenty of women.

>>17711721
>When you look at the flaws do you feel disappointed with yourself?
Yes.

>>17711721
I don't feel disappointed, but I try to not give her the feeling that I genuinly like her.
As in not telling her things that I don't mean.
Maybe that comes across as being disapointed..

>>17713780
>what the fuck am I doing with my life
>noooooooooo
*wake me up inside plays in the background

>>17711721
I'm a khv and I honestly feel inferior to women. It's as if they all look down on me, grading every step I do in life, grading every property I have and pigeonhole me as a loser before they even learn to know me as I really am. I seriously would sleep with every women right now that looks a bit attractive/healthy to me and it would be a pleasure for me to do my best for her enjoying the sex. I would never look at her flaws or be grossed about them. The feeling of acceptance and her joy would be everything that I would need to be happy.

>>17712554
>almost every single one of them is dating really homely chick

Are you saying that because you ha e XX chromosomes or XY chromosome?

I rarely see a lesbian couple with more than one attractive woman. I just don't believe women know if another woman is actually attractive to a male. Similarly -- as an actual male -- I often see what I would call ugly guys with good looking girlfriends. Not that beauty and attractiveness aren't subjective.

>>17714388
I seriously think this or something like it is a big part of it as well, the girls I know as friends keep angrily calling any attractive girl a bimbo and so forth, dressing really unattractively because "muh fashion" and talking HUUUUGE amounts of shit on any girl who dresses to attract men, calling her a slut and so forth. I think deep down (or maybe not so deep) they must know what's hot, but they're in so hard denial out of insecurity, that it somehow doesn't affect their conscious thinking.

>>17714414
>but they're in so hard denial out of insecurity, that it somehow doesn't affect their conscious thinking.

You've got that a bit backwards. They're so in denail that their conscious thinking has been completely warped - they know EXACTLY what they're doing. And they probably hate themselves for it, and for the petty jealousy that they're constantly fueled by. But they're so in denial they won't do anything to change it.

>>17713867
>I'm a khv and I honestly feel inferior to women. It's as if they all look down on me, grading every step I do in life, grading every property I have
I know that feel. It's humiliating to be surrounded by all these women when you know they've assessed you and judged to not be worth their time. You don't even feel like a man.

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>>17711721

>If she's a bit ugly do you end up feeling grossed out a bit? When you look at the flaws do you feel disappointed with yourself?

You ever wondered if she feels grossed out a bit? When she looks at your flaws she's a little disappointed in herself?

This whole conversation is pointless.

>>17714495
this is the dumbest shit ive read all day. are you so fragile that you base your worth on whether or not some dumb cunt looks at you ? you need to find happiness for yourself by yourself before you even think to attract a decent female

>>17714388
I'm a guy but it's funny watching autists speculating about females minds. I'm just gonna leave now.

>>17714558
>are you so fragile that you base your worth on whether or not some dumb cunt looks at you
On others in general, yeah. No shit I need my own sense of self-worth but I just don't have it.

>look at her tits bouncing around
>focus on how good it feels
>look at the funny faces she makes
>focus on not cumming and/or fucking her harder

thats like 95% of what i think about

>>17714598
you should try to build confidence in one factor of your life and spread it around to other parts. get fit, develop a nice wardrobe and fashion sense, find a sport/hobby.

pretty easy, as long as she doesnt have a freaks face like a 2/10
is fat
has poor highene
or is intoxicated out of her mind

I have very little reason not to fuck her if im single.
during sex my mind is pretty empty, I check if she is feeling it and if I am still comfortable and a lot about what I should say or not.

I dont know a single girl that is too ugly, but a lot who are too fat. With fat girls, yes it's gross, they smell like sweat, have a hard leatherlike skin compared to that smooth silk of other chicks and their weight hurts your bones and balls if you let them sit on you.

No problem with visual flaws

>>17714503
Life itself is pointless so don't even start that shit with me buddy

>>17714626

>is fat

So you've eliminated 60+% of the pool? How's that working for you?

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>>17711721

The only women I have sex with is women who I am currently in a relationship with. So I wouldn't just sleep with any old uggo but someone who is at least decent or unique enough to my standards.

But what usually goes through my head when I make love to my girlfriend is simple. Some basic things like personal hygiene on her end. It would be hard to focus if she sucks with hygiene. Feminine basics like removing unsightly hair in places, doing nails, hair and makeup. Brushing their teeth (so many women guilty of this one). Cleaning their intimate areas.

Another one would be pleasure. If you're having sex and its painfully obvious that the women isn't enjoying herself, its a turn off. My girlfriend is so tight down there, it hurts her sometimes so to me, getting good feedback is always a plus for me. This or actual enjoyment. If you're just making love for the sake of pleasing me and you're not enjoying it, just forget it. You have to like it too.

Last I think is sexual prowess. My girlfriend was a virgin and lost it with me. It's a turnoff if you are so young, you don't know how to give guy head or properly ride him or do other basic positions. I have to keep doing missionary only with her because she is so petite; I usually end up hurting her. So when a girl knows how to make you feel good (but not from being slutty), like doing her own research would be nice for me.

>>17714859
60% of fem pop is fat? Where do you live man? Fucking Hawaii?

Personally as a guy, what matters to me is pretty straight forward.

Take care of yourself. Good hygiene (well shaven, skin care, pussy smells good) etc is important.

That, and don't be fat. If you don't have a perfect face or the best tits that isn't your fault. But don't be fat.

>>17711721
You stupid bitch, you could go to some random bar and sit there alone right now and guys would approach you and literally offer to have sex with you subtextually

What the fuck do you know about life, what the fuck do you know about self doubt, stop fucking asking for validation online you stupid whore

I'm going to kill myself

>>17714767
Your life maybe. Life is what you make of it.

>>17714879

http://www.gallup.com/poll/156707/majority-overweight-obese-states.aspx

Even the skinniest states are majority fat. Females actually tend to be skinnier than males(~60% vs ~70% is the numbers I've seen), but still, most people are fat period.

>>17714989
God you're a dumb fucking faggot