I get hit on and stalked by creeps daily >guy filmed me running

>>17708789
hide your body if youre not already

>>17708789
posts pics.

>>17708789
Are you really attractive? If so, thats probably why you get harassed so much.

I don't have an answer for you about the straight up creeps/attackers but for people you know socially maybe just try to act like a stuck-up cold bitch. But then people might not like you and you might get lonely. Sorry you are going through this.

I think that you need to be bolder and stand up for yourself more.

>Thought it was a mistake the first time. Second time was awkward. Third time I cancelled training sessions with him.

Don't let there be a second time.

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>>17708789
>>guy from college told everyone we were secretly dating but don't tell anon because she wants it to be a secret
Funnily enough some dude from high school did this to me, and he even held my hand while walking in the hallways. I think I was too autistic and passive to think anything of it during that time.

>>17708789
learn self defense

>>17708789
>church counselor who's twice my age, tied me up, tazed me, stole my v


how did everyone glaze this over?

>>17708938
>physically assault someone because they said some creepy shit and held my hand
One way ticket to jail

>>17708941

It was stated non-chalantly while everything else was made to be a big deal.

>>17708946
>jail
>seemingly attractive woman

kek

>>17708951
Grow up. I doubt you've ever dealt with the cops

Very curious case. I'm a guy so I don't know if there's anything I can say that would help. I guess for at night I can suggest not going out alone, get better friends, and to go to an all female gym (yes they do exist) cause most of your problems appear gym oriented. Oh and you should probably report that church counselor to the police.

>>17708941
I didn't. Hence these lowered drawers and this loved rooster

>>17708789
>>church counselor who's twice my age, tied me up, tazed me, stole my v
Did you not rat on him? If not, was it because of something he said? If so, what did he say?

>>17708956
>Grow up.
Enraged womyn detect!

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>>17708938
That's my purse! I don't know you!

>>17708789
>I get hit on and stalked by creeps daily
same and i'm a guy. but i don't complain about it.

>>guy filmed me running
females film me as well as sneak creep shots all of the time pretending to text or taking pics of the city. do you feel more important?

>>guy from college told everyone we were secretly dating but don't tell anon because she wants it to be a secret
i'm around your age. girls act like basic non-sexual interaction with me is super significant and they giggle about it and tease one another acting like we secretly has sex on the low. but i don't complain about it. just don't talk to those people. grow the fuck up.

>>my bfs cousin told his fiancé we dated, I cheated, and he forgave me
stop contact with them. if you must, then have adult small talk. control your shit if you have to interact with them again.

>>guy sat next to me to talk in the library, I moved to a different area of the library, he follows, takes my book, says "you're not reading until you talk to me."
girls sit next to me all of the time. either hitting on me, expecting me to interact first, or because they feel more secure around me than anyone else. you look like a child submissively looking down and pouting. simple.
also you should have reported the incident and you didn't- like a child.

>>17709163
The difference in your interactions and OPs is that the threat of violence and shame are always present. It's different for women.

>>17709202 <this
>>17709163 fucken faggot

>>17708789
What's wrong with you just be straight up don't cower and bitch about nothing if your not interested in whatever say so don't act like a victim

>>17709235
she can still get felt up after saying no

>>17709235
She was literally held a against a wall and assaulted

>>17708789
Do your outfits and demeanor generally suggest that you're looking for sex?

Look OP it happens to women it's just something that happens. It doesn't matter what you wear, what you say or how you act. Be safe, carry mace, always check your back seat. Don't go walking alone at night without some form of protection and be aware of your surroundings always. In social situations be forceful and get used to telling guys to just Fuck Off. The reason you're being targeted is because you're probably quiet or come off as meek, people like that will try to dominate you they think you enjoy their gross overbearing behavior when you're just trying to be polite. So learn how to say Fuck Off and be forceful about it you're entitled to your personal space and those guys are just wasting your time.

First of all put that church counselor in jail. For everything else if they're random people then you should be fine, if you carry a knife on you. If it's someone you know you should probably get a restraining order on them. It sucks th is is happening to you but you have to learn to adapt to your surroundings. You can't expect people to change so you have to change.

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If you ain't wearing a burqa, then I ain't got any sympathy for your fakeass whore problems.

Read Sinfest...
...
Naaaaaah. But there is not much to say and you have the right to wear revealing clothes if you want to? Probably you should be icy in your demeanor and learn self-defense to build up confidence and abilities to fight back.

Are you living in a arab-heavy country?

>>17709227
>Men are statistically the majority of victims of violent crimes
>anecdotally, female privilege from my personal experience means a lot of women can be very rapey or say explicit things and feel like they're not harassing you

The same shit that affects women affect men, too. These aren't like exclusive things. Moreover, the majority of sexual assault crimes are committed by people the victim knows. Unless these strangers plan on sexually assaulting/ raping you in broad daylight, I call bulkshit on the fear that it's going to happen just because some guy flirts with you or says some weird shit.

>>17709163
You sound like a "redpilled" faggot.

>>17708789
Your up against a small subset of people who are attracted to you who are willing to do terrible things. For most men and ugly women this subset is small because the total number of people attracted to them is small. For you the subset is much bigger. There's no solution to rape, only risk mitigation. A Burka might work, plastic surgery to make yourself uglier might work, getting fatter might work. Your up against people in general. Your not going to solve rape/general creepiness in this thread.

>>17709288
move to a place with a lot of beautiful people and low rape rate. Then your just part of the crowd, i guess that's a more positive mitigation of risk.

>>17709287
Yeah, he probably is. I find anyone who boats about how people are sneakily taking photos of them in public tends to just be someone trying to project a persona, or an image of themselves, same as those redpill faggots.

They probably were just texting or taking photos of the city.

y'all niggaz postin in a troll thread

>>17708789
>>17709292
Though OP i'll admit, none of us here are really well equipped to handle these situations. And a blunt force solution like a burka or moving cities might not be the right direction to take this.
How does Nikki Minaj handle this, how does kim kardashian handle this. They definitely have bad raps especially here on 4chan (likethatfuckingmeansanything) but they are arguably the most aesthetic females out there and they get by.
Maybe the tool you need to combat this lies more within social grace and manipulation than physical measures.

>>17708789
> ANSWERS FOR THE QUESTIONS

>How to stop being harassed ?
> Try put ugly makeup
>STOP putting tons of make up
>Try to act like a nasty girl ( picking boogers or something else)
> Guys will always harass you cuz they want you genitals ( pussy ok )
> pick clothes that dont really go dogether
> try yo have casual hair stile like at home whenever you go

>WHAT YOU ARE DOING WRONG?
>being too pretty
> wearing sexy clothing
> having good locking hair and body ( you dont want to lose it for sure)

>PROBLEMS YOU FACE
> getting carrying BF
> scared of males
> thinking why you were born so pretty
>Ultimate thing to end harassing is

> say that you are GAY
AKA LESNIAN

and they will buzz off i hope

That's too much work. When some guy was harassing me in high school my brother beat the ever loving shit out of him. From that point on I learned as long as you jump straight to violence guys like that who get off on picking on defenseless girls back down met with this type of resistance. I usually just say something like I'll fuck them up, and easy peasy problem solved.

>>17709332
>>17709338
Dropped quote

>>17709320
if you come off as unapproachable and intelligent maybe the beta creeps will be too intimidated to approach. But the fact that your asking "how 2 stop harass?""im crying i dont know what to do" makes me think you come off as vapid and vulnerable, like the girl in the picture.
Im just saying stupid girls come off as easier targets. If there's a meaning to your every move, an impenetrable awareness to your environment, a quick wit and a confident smile, only the lowest percentage of the subset will try anything, like actual serial rapists that have nothing to lose.

>>17709343
The only way i know to get to this level of social mastery and awareness is the red pill. It's the only method I know of where manipulation is brought to some kind of science with loads of evidence to back it up. Whether you believe these guys get laid or not, at least there's a method you can test.
test it on guys and girls and see where the differences lie. The goal is to get social nuance down so you can deal with any creep(or anyone else) that comes your way.
Manipulation could be your out.

>The older I get, the more older men approach me

oh baby youll love it when you start to age :^)

>>17709392
seeing as nobody has replied to my ideas, can any of you find flaws in my approach, any better ideas? How do we protect qt from people?

>>17709414
>>17709338

>>17709416
a few nights hitting on people at a bar and studying the red pill isn't a big trade off for not being a permavictim

>>17709425
The funny thing about redpillers is they think they've discovered some grand secret but in reality they've just learned the social cues for casual sex and relationships everyone else has been using. Most people don't make a big deal out of it of course because these interactions are cultural norms.

>>17708789
Do people you want to fuck hit on you also?

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>I cheated, and he forgave me.
OP confirmed for being a coalburning roastie.

>>17709431
well its been news to me. It could be news to her as well. Besides what i've seen from TRP is women are really passive and kind of along for the ride. the goal would be for her to be in control of others, not the typical dynamic. The typical dynamic leaves the women confused and they don't learn as much as the guy does about manipulation from the interaction.

>>17709432
Dobler-dahmer theory

>>17709432
just think about this mantra:
"Everyone fucking loves me, anyone who doesn't is a fucking weirdo/asshole"
If you began to legitimately believe people who didn't like you were total weirdos and outliers and that everyone loved you, you'd have a ridiculous amount of confidence. combine that with aloofness and confusing dialogue and you get a potent persona that gets a lot of guys laid. I'd say try it op, stop being along for the ride.

>>17709464
shit meant to reply to >>17709431

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>>17708789
>not reporting any of this
pic related

You can:
-stop being attractive, seriously, get fat, noone will care about you
-be more careful where you go
-accept that there will be always perverts, learn to keep them away

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>>17708789
Goddamn.

>>17709163
autism

>>17709475
basically what i've been saying. but its too basic and isnt giving OP real solutions besides the first point. "be more careful where you go" what does that even mean?
"Accept that there will always be perverts, learn to keep them away" how does she learn? who's going to teach her?

It will stop once you reach 35 I promise . By 50 no one will even notice your existence so just hold out it gets better .

>>17709340
well i tried to help u girl..
Sorry for being straight forward cuz i cant be other way

You're doing something that you're not telling us, OP. Do you smile other guys often for no apparent reason? Do you act very friendly? Do you protest when some guy touches you even in a casual manner like hugs? Are you also, above it all, attractive? Do you like to act bubbly?

Or are you dramatising things way over the facts? Because merely being attractive does NOT make guys literally want to rape you every given chance.
I know because I'd be considered very attractive but nothing like thus ever happens because I'm not dumb.

I also don't understand the church counselor stuff. Care to explain that? One does not simply "tie someone up, taze them and rapes their virginity away"

I think you're bullshitting us OP or you're not telling us things.

>>17708897
>>17708918
>>17708938
No makeup, nails, or hair done ever
Only wear plain, non flashy, nonrevealing clothes
Plain Jane face and body
I live in a small town in NC, not the Middle East
I started lifting, getting self defense and gun safety classes to prevent anything from happening. I'm still too weak compared to the hobo who held me down. He was short af but stronger.
I don't drink, go to bars, or stay out late.

>>17708966
>>17708969
They "couldn't prove it" so it was a he-said, she-said case

>>17709163
Next time, don't judge so quickly.
>the guys camera followed me
It took me a second to realize what he was doing. I stopped abruptly, he awkwardly made eye contact, quickly lowered the phone, and walked away. If you had a daughter being filmed, you'd be okay with that?
>I don't have contact with bfs cousin. Met him twice. The second time I saw him was at college on the way to class and I yelled at him. He's a druggy and I don't want to be associated with that
>Library incident was reported. I ran off and he chased after me and he told me about his prepping for when "they take our guns." They got it saved on camera just in case anything happens in the future so now I'm allowed to carry mace on campus.

And gym employee stealing my number was reported. My friend is the gyms lawyer. They had ethics and sexual assault classes immediately afterwards.

I love pretending i am a girl on the net

>>17710471
thats all good
but what about my thing?
>>17709392