Need sex/relationship advice. I've been together with my

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>>17704819
You don't turn her on.

Low sex drive is actually bullshit. Would he sex drive be low around these guys?

>>17704821
I'm actually pretty fit and handsome, more than her really.

>>17704850
Sure senpai

>>17704862
Nice projecting ;^) and advice too

>>17704819
Hate to break it to you pal, but it doesn't sound like she's into the relationship. If she was then she'd want to make you happy. You need to find out what she's worried about and reassure her.

-t. recently dumped

>>17704875
I'm sorry about that man, but trying to make others feel shitty on 4chan isn't bringing your gf back to you.

she must get horny and want to have sex with you. She can not know what you are doing. It must feel as if you are doing it by accident/unintentionally: Be close to her. really slowly and with pauses do the following: hold her., go with hand through her hair, rub really slowly backside of her head, leg, neck/shoulder backside ear. all of this only when she is relaxed. Practice with a real cat so you can read physical reaction when you rub correctly. A cat will react on you caressing it like a woman.

>>17704882
Hey man, I'm not trying to make anyone feel bad, I'm just trying to help him not make the same mistake I did.

i missed this in your explanation OP " I only dare to ask for some tit for me to suck on when she isn't in the mood". You did what there?!? You have her pull out a boob when she is not in the mood, so you can suck on it ??

>>17704902
She doesn't just pull it out, she kisses me and shows me her boobs and shit like that. That's just an example though, and she isn't always willing to do that either.

Still dude, Feels wrong that you ask her to do that if she is not horny. She is not a hooker you payed to do stuff for you. If you want her to be horny, you will have to study and learn what gets her horny. And one of the ways will be making her relax and feel affection, warmth and security coming from you. Very important info: how many times a week and where do you see each other?

>>17704930
We spend most of the time together at our homes. I just find it weird because she enjoys a lot every time we have sex. And sometimes I even feel she's getting horny but she just says no. Basically she doesn't let me get her horny.

She is fucking someone else

I still think you are too pushy. It all screams that she is not a100% relaxed and feels you moves as pushy or having to say yes or no to. Your homew means no parents or flatmates or children wright?

>>17704959
We have privacy. I actually got tired of trying to seduce her every time and now I'm just straight up asking her. This way I get less disappointed at least.

>>17704959
There are parents in our homes, but that isn't a problem most o the time.

So it turns out that you still need to learn different ways of showing affection and maybe seducing her. Seems you was not really having a big successrate. And instead of working harder and study her like a mysterious creature that she is, You decided to give up and try the "will she just let me treat her as a free hooker because she has feelings for me"? How you think those feelings will evolve for you john?

>>17704988
Feels pretty shitty to be turned down every day of the week; it was hurting our relationship. But I get what you're saying.

oh my god: "There are parents in our homes, but that isn't a problem most o the time.". Genius. So because she has fucked above mommy an daddy's head , she must love it? You should have started with this. You are surprised she only wants to fuck with her parents close by every five days?!? Oh wow. Ofcourse. 4chan Where everyone thinks that having relations while living at your parents is a good idea. Poor girl.

Go live alone. Keep your place clean and cosy and that will help with the o so important 'relaxed' factor. When you live at your parents you think that you can also feel relaxed. But it is never the same as in your own place.

>>17705017
>>17705004
I'll do it if you guys pay our rent.

Would you/her be willing if you just went down on her? Maybe she just doesn't want to be fucked, and she'll be likely to reciprocate the favor afterwards

The dude is just an overhorny kid. He has to become a man first, and then a movie lover, not the porn actor that he is trying now. Sure he isn't good in erogenous zones/patience/ affection etc.

>>17705036
Also giving her a sexy massage might help. Try making it all about her, with no pressure on her to do anything. Giving you good advice is tough with this limited amount of info. Maybe its her, or maybe its your approach, or maybe like others said she just isn't comfortable w family in the house.

He clearly sees sex as something he consumes when he likes to. like when he was still masturbating. He still has to go through the phase where he will learn that sex with a girl is a combination of studying a subject/girl. knowledge and the art of using a combination of time, movement,(not only of your dick), and emotional connecting to mostly give to her. Resulting in great stuff for you also in the end, but thats not important ; )

>>17705036
I go down on her pretty much every time, the problem is that she stops me long before I get to that point.
>>17705041
She actually tells me that she came very rarely before me, so I'm kind of proud in that department. I know you'll not believe it because everyone on 4chan must be an ugly loser that sucks at sex but hey, I do believe her.
>>17705045
I did try to giver her massages. This decrease in the sex has been in the last two months. Before that we did it pretty much every day. In our homes.

>>17705068
After all this info: your average of once a week is very normal. You can not expect to keep having sex every day.

Maybe you're bad in the sack? Idk man you're definitely asking the wrong people. Ask her instead

>>17705078
Thanks man, you've been helpful. I hope that this is just a phase though (have some motives to suspect that), once a week is kinda painful for me.

>>17705095
You horny rabit. when you are over 30, once a week will sound as an awesome dream

>>17705026
Oh come on, man up and work and pay rent, even a small apartment isn't hard

>>17704819
Every 5 days is pretty normal. Hormones fluctuate not every one is the same. She could have other stuff bugging her putting her outta the mood too. Just masturbate

Cumming everytime its not reslly s súper good indicator, dunno why but frigid women are like that

It has something todo with some behaviour you have, confronting her makes it worse

Very low does not equal every 5 days anon. Sounds about normal, maybe a little below normal. You're probably intimidating her a little bit by being pushy about it. You're young though and you sound like you're not really ready for a committed relationship. Maybe break up and have one night stands/fuck buddies every night until you're ready for something meaningful.

>>17704819
She likes hard kinky shit which would scare you

Like take fantasies where you beat her and call her a slimy cunt slut and tell her you want to take a huge shit up her cunt as you're fucking her

>>17704941
Is she your first boyfriend or the first one she lost her virginity to? If so then she's probably just shy and she's not used to doing kinky stuff. I'm pretty numb to sexual experiences sometimes but I try to fake enjoying it if that's what makes my boyfriend happy. You should talk to her about it in a way that wouldn't offend her.

If shes not willing to put any effort into it just start looking for a new girlfriend.

Unless the cause is some temporary thing like stress at work or grandma dying or something like that it's not going to get any better than this.

>>17704915
so you treat her as a sex toy and you're surprised why she's hardly ever in the mood to fuck?

>>17706100
always amazed it never crosses a guys mind women know when sex is all they want and cannot understand when we withdraw.

She's either not a really sexual person, not into you, selfish, or cheating on you. None of these things are conducive to a healthy relationship. Dump her and move on. Or not and start finding someone to fulfill your needs on the side.

You shouldn't have to suffer because she is unavailable.

>>17704819

once every 5 days is not 'low sex drive' by the way. its perfectly normal.