So, I'm in my longest relationship yet, we'll have our first anniversary in a couple of days but i dont really know what the fuck should i do with this relationship.
My girlfriend and I have a lot of differences especially opinion wise. I'm a total liberal who doesn't give a fuck about patriotism, moral values and religion. I'm actually a rather die hard atheist. Now my girlfriend is very religous. It wasn't that much big of a deal at first, but lately she's been acting more and more like your typical christian brainwash. She makes its rather clear that she looks down on me for being an atheist and nihilst (No. I'm not some edgy fuckhead. Its just a belief thats rather inseperable from atheism). Also she acts kinda fanatical lately... She wants to wait with sex untill mariage (fuck that), when talking about children she insists we'll raise them christian way (I want to teach them about all options and don't force my beliefs on them) and some other stuff, too many to list.
But her religion isn't the only problem. She's way to oversensitive, always plays the victim card and blames everything on me. Im kinda tired... yet i find it really hard to break up with her. I care about her a lot. Don't know if i love her, maybe not. Not to mention that i'm an ugly autistic fuckhead who will propably never have gf again.
You fuck her and fuck her good.
differences in politics/religion aren't necessarily dealbreakers but the fact that you're so dismissive and disrespectful regarding your gf's convictions makes me think the relationship isn't going to work
break up
>im willing to do the church thing if de do the sex
Sex usually fix everything
I go to church with her rather often. Just for her to feel good. I'm not going to convert to christianity.
you can go through the care-posturing of going to church with her but if you're in the mindset of referring to her (or Christians in general, for that matter) as "brainwashed" it's clear that this is going to implode at some point anyway. Better now than when you have kids and can't agree on how to raise them.
If you really give a shit about her, read GK Chesterton's "Orthodoxy" and THEN make your decision. This is a good litmus test because if you aren't willing to do ~150 pages of reading to try and understand your gf, you probably aren't even that into her