So, I'm having some problems with my life during this period

stop being vague with us or we can't help.

what 'problems' are you talking about? are you gay or something?

look, whatever shit you have going on, fix it, but don't let it get in the way of your happiness. you deserve to be with a great woman, remember that. are you gonna keep putting it off until you're organized and everything's perfect in your life?

because I got news for you, pal: it'll never ever happen.

>>17702680

What are you talking about exactly? I don't understand holding back information when you're on an anonymous message board asking for help.

From the vague information you have put forward I would say hold onto the relationship and fix your problems at the same time...

>>17702688
>>17702683
Yeah guys I guess I should have said my problems you are right

>have had depression for years
>randomly get depressed like for example I go out with friends then start feeling sad n shit
> hate myself and my look even if everyone says "you are funny and good looking"

I'm prob scared that those things will hold me back in this relationship so I don't know if that was a good idea

>>17702702

Having depression shouldn't stop you from pursuing a relationship, if anything it will help with how you feel if the girl is right for you. You say you're both into each other so I take it she likes who you are. If you ever run into issues with her that you believe have been caused by your depressive moods or insecurity then maybe just try to explain it to her so she can understand your point of view, don't hide it from her but also do everything you can to not let it severely impact your relationship, keep it positive.

>>17702702
I'll give you an example of how depression and anxiety works.

>think a lot of negative thoughts
>this causes you to feel depressed
>a positive opportunity presents itself
>your negative thinking kicks in
>talks you out of trying to improve yourself
>sabotages the opportunity
>depression and anxiety grows stronger
>you feel even worse
>rinse, repeat

it's up to you to break the cycle, buddy. good luck doing that if you keep pushing away the good things.

>>17702712
>>17702710
Both are some good advices thank you guys if things get bad you will probably see another thread here where I ask for help haha. I'll try to keep a positive attitude anyway let's see how it goes.