Is being in a relationship and having sex and all that kind of

>>17702500
It is good if you have it with the right person.

You lose weight, improve your body and your overall physical appearance. You go to a therapist and work on your intense social anxiety.

>Is being in a relationship and having sex and all that kind of stuff as good as people make it out to be?
Yes. It's mindnumbingly good.

>How does someone who has intense social anxiety and is a unattractive fat shit find someone?
You don't. Deal with you anxiety first, lose the fat and max your looks to become attractive. Read The Book of Pook.

You don't even have to lose weight but you do have to exercise. Exercise calms you on a long term basis by stimulating the growth of neurons that carry GABA, essentially, it's a natural benzo. Secondly, even if you don't lose weight, you will become much more confident.
Thirdly a fat guy can look spectacular with just well defined shoulders and good posture.
All in all if you don't fix your attitude weight loss will do jack shit. You have to approach women like you'd approach other humans. I suggest the above and getting to know women on a casual social basis. Don't even think about sex, just get to know them. Go to gatherings, go study, again if you must. Just be a good guy. You'll ease up eventually, you just gotta get out there and do it.

t. ex socially anxious fatty that while isn't a cunt destroyer, does pretty well with women

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>>17702511
This.

First of all - spend time with yourself and learn to love yourself. Go for walks, go out of the comfort-zone and look at your feelings an thoughts.
Accept them and appreciate yourself for the person you are in your inner core.
All the beautiful imaginations and wishes are beautiful parts of yourself.

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It's not the being in a relationship nor the sex that makes it worth while, but the companionship of the other person in your life that lightens your burden.

Improve yourself, not to find someone or for romantic reasons but because you are more than a fat anxious dramaqueen shit
-become a better human being, because you deserve it.

>>17702500
Having a fuck buddy is better, relationships are garbage in this era. It's sad but true.

"Love" isn't real, it's just a word. Don't go out looking for love, it won't make you happy. Learn to respect yourself and get in shape, all while pushing yourself out of your comfort zone.

>Lose weight
>exercise for an hour a day, get a gym membership and start on the treadmill or go outside for a moderate walk for at least 4 miles a day.
>eat better
>drink more water

And girls don't just fall into your lap, once you get in shape and you can confidently think to yourself "damn I look good", you have to approach women. Ask for their number, learn to make small talk and flirt. As long as your not completely autistic, you'll be able to feel out conversations better and better as you get more experience.

And just to make sure it's clear, FUCKING is the best thing in the universe, relationships are shit though.

>>17702511
Why the fuck would he read the Book of Pook if he wants a normal relationship?

>>17702500

by settling for a fat piece of shit.

>BUT MUX ANXIETY!

do it anyways.

also, consider losing weight.,

>>17702500
a relationship has the potential to be good, but you have to be pretty selective to find one that is. otherwise, it will probably be shit
sex is pretty excellent most of the time, but it can sometimes be shit
tl;dr: its all circumstantial. get /fit/ and stop being a baby about it so you can try it for yourself

>>17703184
Because that's what the Book of Pook is about?
And because I found nearly everything in it to hold absolutely true judging from my own experience.
Be Happy with yourself, attract girls who are happy with themselves and make a good fit too, then mutually improve your lives while respecting each other.

>>17702500
>Is being in a relationship and having sex and all that kind of stuff as good as people make it out to be?
Nothing could possibly live up to THAT kind of hype. But it is quite nice, assuming the relationship itself is a good one.