When is it time to stop pursuing a girl? I don't know if she's playing hard to get or isn't interested in a relationship. I don't want to burn my bridges by asking her out when I'm unsure.
Yeah I gave up on that shit ages ago, I think I finally got the hint and stopped harassing girls for something more
>>17699151
How are you even pursuing her, if you haven't even asked her out?
>>17699154
What do you mean?
>>17699157
Sometimes she gets really flirty and playful, or stares at me constantly and lots of eye contact. But then later it seems like she purposely ignores me. I fon't know her end game so I just give up on trying, then she comes back. She's always been around though.
>>17699151
Asking her out and getting rejected would suck, but at least you wouldn't be left with those "what if" thoughts that can last a long time
just do it, the worst thing that can happen is your suspicions will be confirmed
not that girls ever say yes when asked out
A solid yes or no to the question, "do you want to go out?"
Keep asking until you have a solid answer. Until then its all interpretation.
>>17699174
That's called sexual harassment
>>17699170
>>17699174
I guess so, I drive myself crazy thinking about stuff like that. I'll wait for some event after new years to do it, it's a formal party thing that'd work perfectly. If I lose her then she wasn't all that interested anyway.
>>17699167
I mean you can use up all your resources searching for a girl but it can be very heart breaking to do so
>>17699192
I know that feel, it's like self harm, I need to stop. But I've never even touched a girl's hand yet I'm told I'm attractive.
Bumpo
If you are strongly attracted to her, then she most likely isn't interested in you at all.
>>17699184
Asking someone out is sexual harassment?
>>17699185
Suggestion: Waiting never works.
>>17699198
Attraction is different from being comfortable enough for physical contact.
>>17699304
Yes it is. You can get fired for that
>>17699326
Ah, repeatedly yes, but not the first time.