The only thing I've ever wanted in life was a beautiful wife and children.
I'm a 31 year old ugly male. I'm 50 lbs overweight. I haven't dated in 10 years.
The last girl I dated, we were engaged to marry, but there was a car accident, and she didn't make it, and my face got messed up.
I haven't bothered to look for a new girlfriend since. Now I'm getting too old to get a girlfriend young enough to have healthy children.
Should I just give up on finding a woman to marry and join a monastery?
My dad didn't have me until he was 45, and I like to think I'm perfectly healthy. And that was 25 years ago.
>>17697351
idk dude my mom had me when she was 42 or im adopted anyway 31 isnt too old my nigga
>>17697374
>>17697351
Also, my mom was 33.
>>17697374
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>>17697377
Rates for stuff like autism and Down syndrome start to go up for women past 30 and men past 45. I wouldn't have a kid with a woman over 35.
loads of ugly fat men have beautiful wives and children :)
get out there and find you a grill, the only thing holding you back is yourself.
>>17697447
Maybe on tv but in reality people end up with partners who are about the same as them looks wise. Op is a stupid, entitled piece of shit if he thinks he's deserves a hot skinny wife
>>17697465
My fiancee was beautiful. I guess I just want a woman like her.
>>17697506
have you tried plastic sugary?
>>17697506
You've got to put her behind you. She's gone.
You're only going to push other women away until you can mentally bury her.
>>17697351
Either way op that's what I was aiming for too. Im 32 now and overwight and I have a tattoo that I hate. Doesn't look like its going to happen for me either. so your not alone.
>>17697517
I looked into it and it would cost a bit of money. I could afford it, but I don't know if it's actually worth it at this point. Maybe ten years ago. I also don't know how deformed by face is. It's hard to judge. Strangers treat me like I'm a monster or retarded or nonexistent. Some people have pointed out my deformity to me. Some people pretend not to see it even when I point it out to them. Even if I got surgery, lost 50 lbs, and whatever, what kind of woman could I even hope to attract? My confidence is totally shattered.
>>17697520
I haven't had the opportunity to push any women away. My face does that fine on its own.