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I'm a girl, how do I get more girlfriends? I'm kind

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I'm a girl, how do I get more girlfriends? I'm kind of shy. and I only get approached by guys, I mean I'm open to being friends with guys but they almost always have sexual incentives.
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Bait.
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>>17695272
What makes you think this is bait? This is my number 1 crisis
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Go to places/develop hobbies where you can socialize with other girls.

I'd be friends with you but we probably live very, very far away.
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>>17695283

You can't make friends that are girls and the only connections you have are guys approaching you with a mindset for sex?

Whatever, I'll play along.

What kind of interests do you have? Any sort of clubs or groups you can find like-minded individuals in? Try opening up conversation with someone. Tell her that you really enjoyed talking with them and you're hoping to make a few more friends to hang out with. Exchange numbers and keep in touch with them. Keep up contact at the group setting and also offer opportunities to meet outside. Maybe a quick lunch or a fun activity like going to the movies.
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>>17695293
And do this with more than one person so that you can practice juggling social relationships. If it works well, you can introduce the other friends to the first and make a small group.
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I feel you. I just don't seem to click well with girls, it's not that they hate me, but I can never seem to get close enough to other girls to call them my friend...
I have no problem making male friends, but I don't like them. I only really have interest in have girls as friends...but I'm terrible at it.
I have scores of acquaintances because of this, but at this point I pretty much don't have friends.
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>>17695266
>I'm kind of shy. and I only get approached by guys, I mean I'm open to being friends with guys but they almost always have sexual incentives.

So what? Is that bad? Fuck you op.
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>>17695310
>I have no problem making male friends, but I don't like them.

So you pretend to be friends with people you don't like? Rotten cunt.
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>>17695328
No. We're friends and then inevitably something shitty happens and I'm down a friend. They get drunk and tell me I "friendzoned" them, or they get too comfortable and start telling me about the horrifying way they feel about and things they do to other women, or I find out they're drinking their piss, or even one dude who accidentally admitted to me he didn't see anything wrong with "consensual" kiddie porn. There's always some kind of deep dark secret I find out between the 6 month and 2 year mark with my male friends.

In reflection I've often wondered if the problem isn't that they're dudes, but that I befriend nerdy types since that's what I am? Whatever it is, I'm pretty much a hermit now. After the last one texted me a photo of his unwashed buttplug next to a Sonico figurine I'm done trying.

I feel like my standards aren't that high. Don't involve me in your fetishes or take-to-the-grave type secrets. Is that so much to ask?
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>>17695345
>texted me a photo of his unwashed buttplug next to a Sonico figurine I'm done trying.
Post. Pics.
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>>17695266

Know whats really funny about femanons that post
> Only guys approach me
?

You admit you're AT MOST a 6.5/10 on the looks scale, as a large pool of men are confident enough to approach you, and not more intimidating, very attractive women.
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OP has probably left before the third post
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>>17695352
If I were in your position I'd probably want to see it too, but considering I knew him I promptly deleted the text thread and his number; it's gone.
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>>17695293
I'm into art and I've been to art classes but I'm too timid to initiate conversations with randoms.
>>17695362
I was at work.
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>>17695327
Op is probably gay and obviously doesn't want sexual contact with men ya dipshit.

>>17695266
It's hard to give you advice without having some details. Are you a student? Look for a club or whatever where you get to hang out with people with similar interests, meet females there.

Go to the gym often? Try to meet girls there.
Etc..
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>>17695356
How much you get approached has more to do with what the street culture is like in your area than with your looks.

As for OP, you have no real choice but to leave your comfort zone and start striking up conversations with random women anyway. It doesn't really get much more approachable than the situation you mentioned with the art class. You already know you have stuff in common, lots of things around you to discuss (even asking for an opinion on what you're doing or whatever)... it doesn't get any easier. Yeah it's scary, but there's never going to be a magical loophole. (Okay, maybe once. But you're never going to set up a healthy social circle like that.) So better to tackle it now than in three years time, right?
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