>be me
>current boyfriend had too many gfs/one night stands
>says he loves me and that im special etc.
>i don't trust him
>feels like shit
>what do?
>>17695240
Don't believe him.
Yeah. It's bullshit.
If there's a red flag that he's just trying to get in your pants, end it.
My third girlfriend is probably my 30 something sex partner. I didn't ask her out to get in her pants, I was tired of casual sex and wanted a relationship again. Hell, we didn't even have sex until about a month into dating. Your own circumstances could vary, but this could also be the case with your boyfriend.
But like I said, keep an eye out for red flags.
>>17695240
Work on your insecurity, the past is the past. If you can't handle it it's best to break it off.
Personally I follow the 'less history more mystery' rule which prevents any jealousy. Usually around date 2 or 3 is when I bring up that I'd rather be ignorant about stuff like that.
>>17695240
use your brain you dumb ass he is going to use exactly how he used the other girls.
>>17695240
Well, is he older than you? How man is too many? One night stands mean nothing to a man. And having girlfriends mean that he's commited before.
What really matters is how he feels for you.