>love talking dirty to my gf and turning her on massively
>"I want to fill you up with my cum and have you again and again", etc etc
>irl sex is limp-dicked low-test pounding because I have clinical premature ejaculation
>long refractory period because sex is so demoralizing for me
How long until she starts cheating on me with an urban melanin-enriched gentleman? How do I avoid this? Getting better at penetrative sex is literally impossible without medical intervention
inb4 JUST FAP BEFORE SEX BRO, it extends my time from 10 to 15 seconds
>>17695062
Fap literally right before you have sex, spend an hour eating pussy and then she won't care if you cum in seconds
>>17695062
>Getting better at penetrative sex is literally impossible without medical intervention
Then it sounds like you need to get on that medical intervention, famalam. If there's help for your clinical condition, then you need to get it.
>>17695062
I'm the melanin-enriched gentleman your girlfriend stares at in public with X-ray vision.
Regardless, get a medical intervention or start lifting weights to get your T pumping. Do you watch porn? If so, stop.
>>17695062
How does she feel about it? Do you still ensure she cums too?
I dated a guy like this and I kind of loved having the power to make him cum in 60 seconds. Especially when he'd say 'slow down or I'll-" and I just wouldn't listen and clench down. If I got worked up enough I cum pretty much instantly as well.
If she really loves you and you're doing everything in your power to please her, you should be fine. You're likely exponentially harder on yourself than she is.
>>17695203
This is comforting to hear. I don't think she's ever complained. I always make sure she cums before I do. But don't all women severely crave rough sex?
Luuuul
>Hey babe, ima pound you senseless.
>Ohhh anon that's so hot.
>I-It's not working.
>oh, it's alright honey (maybe Tyrone can do it)
>>17695718
Don't let women control you; especially how/when you nut.
For men, sex is a battle we can never win. Just make sure your girl is cumming and is happy and you'll be fine.
>>17695157
Listen to the advice, it works. You're lucky if your gf can fetishize your ed but I wouldn't get your hopes up off of the advice of one femanon.
>There are many privileges to being male in America, but there is also a price: you are stuck playing a game you can never win. There is always someone better then you; anything you can do, someone else can do better; you see it on the news, you see it on TV, you see it in the movies, you see it every time you go outside; in fact, there’s probably a guy you know, maybe his name’s Christopher, and Christopher is better than you not just in one way but at LITERALLY EVERYTHING, and sometimes even when you’re cuddling with your girlfriend there’s a nagging in the back of your skull that if Christopher was here she’d jump into his arms and leave you in an instant, and since that’s the case, you can never, ever feel secure.
>>17695062
No matter what you read on 4chan, not all women are whores who crave BBC and a marathon 12" pounding. Some of them actually like you for who you are.
This is kind of on your mind so maybe you should talk to her about it. Maybe mention that sometimes you wish you could last a little longer but it's hard because she's so hot and see how she responds?