I befriend a girl three years ago (i was 19, she was 20, both

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I befriend a girl three years ago (i was 19, she was 20, both in college). She was really nice and good looking, and was sort of comic geek and weaboo (she is hot, but it seems he wasn't on highschool).
Whatever... in time i realized that she only talked to me when she had problems with men. She even said to me once "Why can i fall in love with guys like you?", which was very painful because i had feelings even though i knew it was never going to happen.
Whatever... she always sort of eluded me when i asked her to do something (just like friends). She used to say: "i am depressed right now because of somehing that happened" or "i'm really busy". 2 months later: already had and broke up with some guy. This happened a lot, so i started to distrust her. I admit she was there when i was feeling bad about someone or something, but those things really pissed mi off.

She used to invite me to like the "comicon" of our city every year. I said no this year (i stopped talking to her a few weeks before that), she asked why, and i told her why: that she only wanted me to comfort her for her bad romantic decisions whilst she eluded me all the time when she was fine.
She went mad: i leaved it the way it was, and a week after i tried to talk to her. After all, maybe i did not tell her this in an appropriate way. She told me it was useless, she know knew what i thought about her, and that she didn't have time for stupid drama.
I found out by chance that she is going to go to the comiccon like event with a friend of her whom she stopped talking because "become too close with her ex, and the people who hates her". My question is: i trully lost a friend, or nothing of value was lost? This situation vex me greatly, because i have few friends (like her and another two).