So, /adv/, today is the big day. In a few hours, I'll go

>>17692376
>Also, I've bought flowers, chocolate and wrote her a letter

You're fucking it up already

>>17692376
I'd say you're being a neckbeard fag for all the preamble, but if you've already done shit like that and she liked it, then sure go for it.

All you got to think is that she wants to be there more than you.
And then you have all the power and it feels good.

>>17692398
Can you explain why?
>>17692399
Actually, we started talking because of an e-mail I wrote her. Then I wrote other things and she always loved it. She told me she had shown it to her family and her closest friends, and all of them are telling I'm perfect for her. This made me a lot more nervous, because I need to impress her after that

>>17692417
Are you 15?

Because otherwise this sounds like you gonna get raped/robbed

>>17692421
No, actually, she's younger than me. And why does it sound like this? I know she's not fake or anything.

>>17692431
Because it sounds naive.

>meet internet woman
>do everything wrong
>she still wants to meet in person
>spend money to go see "her"
>find an alleyway full of grown men who beat you up and take everything you have.

The person you're talking to, as you've described, doesn't sound real.

>>17692398
NO NO NO NO NO

OP I AM A REALLY HOT GIRL AND YOU NEED TO STOP RIGHT NOW OK THIS IS BAD

>>17692417
What the fuck did you write man? Teach me your wizardly secrets.

OP, this is too opulent a display of affection. If you want her to feel you like her, show her in your actions. Getting flowers, letter, chocolates are all very overdone and weird. Most women would feel VERY UNCOMFORTABLE with that. Just go out and have a good time. End the date after two hours. Too much time on the first date can get weird, and it'll be exhausting to talk for that long.

Hey OP, i have had a couple dates and i feel like you're doing fine. i suggest cutting back a little bit and don't show your nervousness. the key to having a good date is to keep talking. any breaks in conversation will lead to awkwardness. find out a lot about her, so that you can do more in your letters. but don't be pushy. basically, keep clam, have a good time and be gentle-man like.

>>17692437
I've seen quite a lot to be sure she's real
>>17692441
Why?
>>17692445
I told her how I admired her blog and wanted to meet her. She loved it and we've started talking
>>17692456
This is actually meant to be long. I know it will be hard, but I'll have to try my best

>>17692441
this is why
>>17692456
your and idiot

So, I'm getting ready to go now. After barely sleeping all night, the time is finally arriving.

One thing I realized is that she's as nervous as me. She sent me a message during the night telling me she couldn't sleep too because of our date. I never thought she would be that way for a guy like me, my legs are shaking right now

You don't love her. You're infatuated with her because you are an idiot virgin with zero life experience.

Love is a feeling you get after a year of living together and knowing every terrible fucking flaw of a person. You haven't even gone out with her yet.

>>17693420

Good luck. Try to chill out and just have a good time.

>>17693422
I'm not a virgin and already had some relationships, but a thing like that never happened before. I mean, she's too beautiful for me and I really thought she would never be interested in me. And, I don't know how to say it, but I really know, deep inside of me, that I really love her
>>17693423
Thanks, anon. I really hope this works out

So, how did it go? I'm anon >>17692463