So I'm 27, just had my first experience with my current

>>17692089
The only thing that made me cringe is your attitude.

>>17692097
How do you mean?

>>17692103
Your repeated "mortification" at something your gf didn't even have a problem with. The goal of sex is getting each other off, not to have it mirror porn.

I have the exact opposite problem. I last like 2 to 3 hours. It sucks.

>>17692130
This.

Sex is supposed to be fun, not "hump until you cum". Also, sex doesn't have to end just because someone orgasmed.

>>17692089
>>17692089
You should probably just tell her you're a virgin, anon. I would guess based on what you said that she would maybe even like the idea of showing you the ropes.

try working out. it boosts testosterone and could make you more confident and last longer

>>17692290
>This science brought to you by Bro Incorporated

>>17692089
Lasting long comes with practice. Doing it a lot, will make it easier to last longer. Until then you could try using a condom. It doesn't feel as good (which in this case is what you're looking for). Go slow, stop for kissing, you can do it anon. I believe in you.

>>17692130
That is true

What frustrated me most was that when I put a condom on I went soft. Then she would blow me until I was ready again and I'd wrap up again for it to happen again. Why would that happen

>How do I stop myself from finishing so soon?
Stop actively trying to last longer. Stop thinking about it.
Relax and enjoy the moment. Take breaks, go slow, stop before you're cumming. That kind of stuff.

You're having sex with your girlfriend, the very last thing you should be is stressed out and stressing yourself out.

>>17692310
Funny response

Yeah honestly I had worse sex this week with the same girl on the day I worked out. But go figure, it probably had to do with something else entirely.

>>17693121
Wrong size.
It should fit and be snug, not turn your dick into a packed sausage.

try fapping with a condom to get used to it.

>>17693127
It did feel tight, wasn't sure if that was how it was meant to be

Nerves, man, fucking nerves...
But you're in the best possible situation to overcome this, and your girlfriend is great in helping you.
You just need to do one thing. It's pretty hard thing to do, but you sure can do it in time.
Stop overthinking.
That's it, now go get some sex.

>>17693258
Thanks she is great. I really wish I told her the truth about being a virgin now too

>>17693331
Dude, you can still let her know about it or let her know how sexually inexperienced you are in general. I told the girl that took my virginity that I was a virgin, and she showed me how to do so much. It was really hot and made the sex amazing.

Does anyone have the opposite problem? I haven't been able to cum with a girl I've slept with around 6 time. It still feels great and we have a lot of fun. It was over a year for me before the first time we had sex.