What to do when you realise you are ugly and have to lower your standards? It's pretty bad to be honest, I want to shoot myself.
>>17691785
find alternative ways to raise your stock.
>>17691785
Escorts/whores. This way you can fuck attractive women without any of the bullshit.
>>17691844
It's not just about sex. I want a qt to love me and cuddle with.
>>17691965
>Wanting a qt for anything more than fucking and making out
What?
I can see a few different routes you might go. all of them will take time and/or money, so if you're looking for an easy and cheap way out, I'll tell you right now there isn't one.
1 - increase your attractiveness so you're not ugly
>hire a beauty consultant or stylist to help you make the absolute most of your features
>get plastic surgery
>work out, you don't have to get swole, but having a healthy physique always helps
2 - work on your personality, outlook and approach to life so people don't mind that you're less attractive. you should do this anyway as part of being an adult. the world has enough shitheels, do your part to make sure that you're not one of them
>cultivate the attitude that you are the ultimate source of all your emotions
>work on managing - not suppressing, but actually dealing with - emotional reactions and attitudes that are unattractive, like excessive clinginess, bitterness, being judgmental
>always be learning new things
3 - learn to appreciate other types of attractiveness in people besides just physical. the most effective way I've found to do this is to take a spiritual perspective, but if you're not a spiritual person, you will have to find another way
>make an effort to see the good in everybody
>appreciate a good genuine smile
>learn more about what makes people tick so you understand them better
>make a point of putting yourself in other people's shoes
all this stuff may sound cringey and gay, but I'm speaking from experience as a married ugly person. if you want a partner and you're starting at a disadvantage, it's gonna be more work.
>>17691979
forgot to add, you could probably do 2 or all 3 of these routes at once. but one at a time is probably enough.
>>17691785
Whenever i feel sad about my looks I think of Michael Imperioli in "The Sopranos" or Al Pacino and how their assymetrical facial features didn't stop the from getting hot chicks.
If you dont have attractiveness by your side you gotta work on other features as Power, money, eloquence, etc
>>17691979
>increase your attractiveness so you're not ugly
Just remember that she won't be loving you, she'll be loving that corporation-inspired factory designer look (tm)
what to do when you realize you are so ugly you can't lower your standards low enough to have sex because you're 0/10?
>>17692020
they got those women because they had money and fame. 99% of people don't have that.
>>17692053
dis lmao
ive been rated max 3/10 on here and on reddit
im not even fat
>>17691785
Idunno man I know a girl who's good looking and has had many guys approach her, she's dating a guy who's shorter than her and never works out because she loves his personality.
What I would say is to look for people you like as people. Too many folks get caught up trying to date the most attractive person and not the person they have a good connection and long term potential with.
You don't have to lower your standards, but it would help to widen them and stop caring so much about looks and attractiveness.
You'll get over it eventually. Just feel good you actually got the realization. It's better trying to chase easier women and getting somewhere SOMETIMES than aiming above and getting nowhere.
Eventually you'll just be so desperate you'll want to fuck chubby girls with a cute face, or skinny girls with an ugly face.
Just be glad you don't have to go down into the ugly face ugly body tier standards. That's a real shithole. They're all suicidal.
Talk away your ugly face and bed the queen of England
>>17691785
>and have to lower your standards?
Never fucking do that.
Just improve in other ways. An ugly guys with 9/10 personality (or/and nice income) will attract top girls too.