I talked to this girl in my class Monday that I've thought

Wtf? Yes. Don't be retarded. Go and talk to her. She obviously is checking you out and is a lonely girl. Go and talk to her before you regret it forever fag lord.

>>17690103

Even if she's in a group?

Which kinda contradicts her being lonely, but whatever.

How do I talk to girls in groups, cause I get the feeling that's what she'll be in for the rest of the semester, knowing my luck.

>>17690169

anyone?

Everyone gets anxious talking to attractive people. It's completely normal. You have to steel yourself, have some courage.

If you walked right up to her and started talking to her when she's in a group, it shows confidence, which is attractive. You should have a pretext to talk to her - a question about the class or something innocent like that.

Don't be weird and only engage her. You could introduce yourself to everyone "Hey, I'm Anon." is good enough. Then just chat.

I know it's terrifying but that's life man.

>>17690051

Should have got her name. Now that you have spoken once it's much easier to repeat, if you run into her just say hey! and talk about exams/classes etc, get her name next time and you can add her on social media, gets the ball rolling.

I wouldn't approach her in a group of people, it's even more pressure on you to not come across as awkward, find her alone or with that same friend from the first time.

>>17690812
Yeah, I really wish I did, but the class we were all walking to was starting and I turned to ask her friend a quick question about another class, and as I did, another friend of the girl's came down the stairs and they started talking and she walked in with her and quickly said bye to me.

>>17690810
I mean, I kinda have a pretext - she talked to me Monday and I can say thanks for the exam help or whatever, or ask her if she understood Thursday's lecture when I see her next. I'm not lying if I do since I really didn't get it that well, and she seems super smart so I have a pretty good idea that she'd probably understand it and explain to better to me.

>>17690818

You've made a similar thread here before right? I remember reading it. Take my advice now and don't put her on a pedestal, you sound like someone who overthinks things a lot and you need to just chill out and not plan your moves and let them play out naturally. Don't look at her as smarter or more attractive than yourself and don't treat her that way, at least not until you're together.

>>17690828

I made one yeah, thanks for the advice anon.

I'm just a bit worried that I'm never going to see her alone or just with that one other friend, really.

I honestly didn't think I was putting her on a pedestal either, but that is possible.

I was mainly just saying that she's pretty smart because she honestly knew the answer to the toughest question on the exam immediately and had no trouble explaining it.

And saying I overthink a lot is and understatement. In all honestly I sometimes feel like I'm possibly autistic because of how obsessive I get and how much I plan things out in my head.

>>17690838

Don't worry about the opportunity not arising because it will. You've seen her alone before so it will happen again at some point. Take every opportunity given, if she looks your way just smile and nod, or if she's close say hey, just keep things friendly.

>>17690844

Alright.

I know I'm getting ahead of myself here, but like, what do I do after that stuff? Like when we're established as friends or whatever?

If I do end up liking her like I probably will, how do I go about that? Like how early is too early to ask someone out or something?

>>17690877

Ah fuck it, I'll deal with it when I deal with it.

Why does this bother me so much, I'm acting like an idiot.

Just talk to her and get to know her, and try it when she's alone. Become better friends, then it won't be weird in groups, right?