>used to be afraid of approaching and talking to girls >started

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2016-10-20 20:05:54 Post No. 17688665
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 20:05:54 Post No. 17688665 [Report]

>used to be afraid of approaching and talking to girls
>started doing it more, slowly becoming more confident and less anxious
>used to have extreme anxiety when i would give them my number
>getting numbers is now really easy

so now that i've gotten passed that shit, i need help. every single time i get a girls number and i mention something about us hanging out in the future i always get the same bullshit.

>"i'm super busy these next couple weeks"
>"oh i'm busy this weekend"
>"i can't tonight, i'm busy"

why the fuck is this happening? bad luck? am i doin it wrong? is there such a thing as text game? how do i get better at text game?

why is this game so hard?

Anonymous 2016-10-20 20:08:45 Post No.17688675
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 20:08:45 Post No.17688675 [Report]

just ask again a few weeks later, chances are one of them isn't lying, or wait even a few months, she could have other shit in her way

Anonymous 2016-10-20 20:14:45 Post No.17688697
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 20:14:45 Post No.17688697 [Report]

>>17688665

i like to try
>im getting sushi this thursday. make time. join me.

about 1/3 of the time i get a
>hahahaha okay ill see what i can do

and then they do show up.

Anonymous 2016-10-20 21:10:12 Post No.17688850
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 21:10:12 Post No.17688850 [Report]

>>17688697
Good thinking chad thank you

Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:20:04 Post No.17689012
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:20:04 Post No.17689012 [Report]

>>17688697
>im getting sushi this thursday. make time. join me.
this is so cringy. How low must your self esteem be to fall for that oversimplified obviously suggestive pick up shit

Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:47:54 Post No.17689067
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:47:54 Post No.17689067 [Report]

>>17688665
The simple fact OP is that if she cared about you , she would make time .

Don't worry about it. If she doesn't like you that much , she just saved you a bunch of time . If a time doesn't work , I suggest another , and if she drops it and doesn't suggest her own , I stop . Just make sure you're direct with the invitation , not like
>heyyyy lets do something this Saturday lol

Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:51:33 Post No.17689076
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:51:33 Post No.17689076 [Report]

maybe they are indeed fucking busy? t. a busy person
Even when I liked the girl if was hard to go out because of my schedule

Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:53:33 Post No.17689081
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:53:33 Post No.17689081 [Report]

>>17688665

>>17689067
>Just make sure you're direct with the invitation , not like
>>heyyyy lets do something this Saturday lol

This a hundred times. Use specific places, and if possible, related to her likes.

Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:55:08 Post No.17689084
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Anonymous 2016-10-20 22:55:08 Post No.17689084 [Report]

>>17688665

Wait a second, something just occurred to me.

Do you chat with them a bit first? Or is it meet, number, let's go out?

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