>tfw social anxiety >tfw pretty much no game when it comes

>>17687838
Stop being needy and being attracted to every girl who shows interest because being needy is an instant turn off for anyone on this planet , even men .

>>17687855
It's not like i wake up and say "well I guess I'm gonna be a needy sack of shit to this girl."

>>17687868
But being so easily attracted to every woman that shows interest is being needy for pussy .

You need to define and create your own self value and derive confidence from that and that self value can be no way derived from what women think. Instead of thinking "how can I impress her ?" Think "I wonder if she'll impress ME,"

>>17687886
I suppose this is why I signed up for counselling. I just hope I don't waste all my college years with this problem.

>>17687886
I literally just got matched with a girl on tinder, how do i not blow this.

>>17687982
Don't pretend to be cooler than you are. Set up a date within 1 or 2 days. 10 minutes minimum between responses.

>>17688013
>tfw in school for programming
>tfw girl asked me what i was in school for, I told her and I never hear from her again

shit happens all the time, I literally set my life up to not get girls it seems.

>Hey what music are you into
>Everything really, just not metal, you?
>Oh, I actually like metal a lot

and I never heard from her again. Am I actually autistic.

>>17687838
It doesn't matter what you say or do guy women can sense AND SMELL your neediness from miles off. Train yourself to be void of desire for love and affection from women. Then train yourself to casually talk to and engage women, by talking to all the women everywhere. Then train yourself to be the first to break off a conversation by smiling saying brief goodbyes and walking away. Shit so basic means so much in a first encounter. How you handle yourself later is a matter of your own personal issues.