What's some good general advice for getting one's shit together?
Motives & Goals in my opinion :/
Literally do everything in spite of yourself and channel all your negative energy/self hatred into hard work until you break through to the otherside. Even once that happens, that feeling of self loathing and hatred might still persist, so be careful.
You just have to hate yourself until your shit gets together and then finally be able to "come to" and realize what's going on that you're situation actually has improved then start to chill out
Work at it every single day, expect many setbacks and relapses, do not waffle around waiting for a breakthrough/epiphany/fresh start
get off this website and never come back
>>17684377
With the power of habits. Set a goal, work towards it on X days at Y hour every week. Do it for 3 weeks or so, and it becomes a habit. It'll become a part of your daily routine, like brushing your teeth or feeding your pet.
>>17684377
broom and shovel