I'm about to give a letter to a girl I really love, with

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>>17683745
Holy shit are you 14? This shit is stupid and won't work, it will just make you look like an idiot and probably teased relentlessly. You clearly have no idea how relationships work and that's something that will come with age, but seriously, put this silly idea aside.

>>17683756
Kek

It's romantic, but I'd hold back until there are some more signs that she's into you. Keep it to yourself for now.

I'm not tryung to hurt you, but she may be using you unintentionally as an emotional pillow since she's "Not sure" about her boyfriend.

Focus on your own hobbies, don't lose self respect, and keep your options open with other girls until she breaks it off with her boyfriend and makes signs that she's into you.

Just my suggestion, but do whatever you feel is right. Experience is the best teacher.

>>17683764
Love has never been my thing, can't recognize a sign, or how to act.

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>>17683777
Fuck, I'm doing this.

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>>17683804
Just for the future, remember to embrace the old ways of men. Be strong, don't beg, and only commit if she's committed.


Love, but don't be sappy. The burden of a man is that he has to hold in a large part of the love he feels for a woman.

This message may be important for you. Save it.

You need to be sorta funny about it....like bring it up in a way that your implying its stupid that you like her...and tell her you need to it get it off your chest. Sort of like "yeah its kind stupid...ive sorta had a crush on you for a while" or something like that...or if shes got sort of low self esteem...then tell her...that shes obviously pretty great cuz u like her

>>17683745
Yes

>>17683745
>being an orbiter

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>>17683745
>Will this be a bad idea, to give her this letter, will it ruin our "relationship "?

It will. She'll never look at you the same. You have a better chance of discussing it in person. Wait for the right time. Don't make a move until she's broken up with him. It's not worth losing a friend.

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>>17684695
She broke up with him, a long time ago.
It's just that she feels like she gave the best of her, and that she kinda miss what he represented. She has suffered alot, and during that period of time, he was more like a friend.

As for the letter, I already delivered it... Kek
I'm at the uni, waiting, thinking what to say when I see her again.
It's not like I confessed love in that letter, just that she's a beautiful girl, not just physically, something among those lines, and that I just want to see her happy, that's old.Nothing extraordinary, but being the autist I am, just couldn't say it face to face.

>>17685071

If you can't say compliments to her face, then how are you going to have a relationship with her?

>>17685076
That's something I think all the time

>>17685082

So? Until you figure it out, you'll have to stop sending shit to heartbroken girls looking for affection.

What you are doing is mean to her.

>>17685087
That's not my intention, at all
Mind explaining how is this mean?

>>17685093

She is hurting. She just got out of a relationship.

You offered yourself in a letter. You offered to be with her.

But you can't even talk to her. Can you really be there for her? Or will you leave her alone just like the last guy?

>>17683818
>he burden of a man is that he has to hold in a large part of the love he feels for a woman.

LORD KEK HAS SPOKEN

>>17685099
I'm 99.99% she doesn't feel like being in a relationship, not with me, atleast.
It's just that we were talking about her life, I just asked if she ever had a bf.
She was honest with me, and I wanted to be honest in return.
>>17685115
Kek

>>17685131

You poor soul. Best of lucks, you'll need it.

>>17685137
I'll need it, thanks

>>17683745

There is the risk that her boyfriend finds out and decides to beat you up.

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>>17683745
Do it. Post results.

>>17683745
Going after her when her relationship is weak and she feels vulnerable will make you look like a vulture.

My friend did it to me and my boyfriend and I laugh at him. I know I'll never look at him the same.

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>>17685168
He can try, I'm autistic, but one that lifts.
>>17685179
I will, stay tuned
>>17685182
I never asked for this

>>17685220

I'm not the same Anon, but you did ask for it. You did take action.

You sent the letter. Don't use the "I can't control what I feel" line. You can control what you do.

>>17685227
I can't control what I feel

>>17685278

You can control what you do.

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Alright, i'll post results in about 4 hours, maybe more.
If anyone is interested (doubt it) keep the thread alive.

You're in college - this is middle school shit. By this age girls have outgrown the "lol he's so shy that's so cute!" phase and onto, you know, a guy she can actually talk to.

>I'm 99.99% she doesn't feel like being in a relationship, not with me, atleast.
The equivalent of lighting money on fire and flushing it down the toilet.

Curious bump

>>17685877
This desu. Bump again.

Don't do it, this is a terrible fucking idea. Also, it's not your job to save her from her boyfriend.

Holy shit.

But post the letter, I'm curious.

>>17686404
Kek, it's kinda embarrassing to post it's content.But when she gets home, I'll post her response

>>17686536
Cmon dude, post it. You're anonymoose, please entertain us. I know I've sent a few of those messages myself always with hilariously bad consequences.

>>17686594
>Hey, A
>Just wanted to let you know that, you're such a beautiful person
>I really wish you find happiness, with or without someone.
...

>if I ever find another partner, I wish she'd be like you, in some way.
>Sorry I couldn't say this in person, but it's what I feel
>Thanks for being honest with me all the time

Something like that


>Inb4 Omega male

>>17683745
of course its a bad idea. best idea would be to burn it. she aint going to turn round and dump him for you. it doesnt work that way kid. its the opposite: treat em mean, keep em keen. girls always want what they cant have its fact. and what you need to do is be something she cant have geddit?
not her fucking sounding board

>>17686672
Top kek, that's pretty bad.

Fuck guys, it happened

>>17685278

You're right, and you won't be able to control how you feel like such a dumbfuck faggot 10 years down the line any time you're reminded of that cringe-inducing pathetic love letter you sent to some bitch whom you're friendzoned with.

>>17686787
Basically this

Ah, where to start...

Basically she came to my room
Told me she doesn't feel anything for him anymore, that is something from the past
That she appreciates my intention.
That I need to find my own happiness, and that hopefully, some day I find my soul mate.
I REALLY doubt she's gonna talk to me after this... Kek

That's all folks.
Now, if you excuse Mr, I'm killing myself

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>>17686801
Jesus christ

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OP here
I just did it...

Did I fuck everything up?

>>17686801
Everything went as planned of course.

>>17686808
Not OP, repost.

>>17686808
Kek, it was an actual physical letter

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What do?
We live next to each-other
And don't want to leave this apartment ever again

>>17686828
opening up to a girl like that never works unless she's as ugly/attractive as you
just pretend it never happened