How can I convince my boyfriend to try anal?
I hate vaginal penetration. I have a unnaturally narrow vagina, so it almost always hurts or is, at least, uncomfortable. I am, however, fond of anal.
He thinks it's gross, though, even though I know I keep myself clean. I just don't want to break up with him because we're sexually incompatable, but I'm just not enjoying myself.
He might need to hear it from another guy. I thought it was pretty gross too until my wife and I tried it on a whim while she was on her period.
She came hard and I came harder. Plus there's really no need to pull out.
Your vagina is probably not overly narrow. Its just not loose because he doesn't turn you on or you aren't mentally comfortable. Vaginas are meant to stretch for dicks.
source: i have vaginismus
>>17683371
Oh, no, I have a medical condition.
>>17683378
I've been to 13 doctors that all said different things or did not acknowledge my vaginismus.
Who told you that you had a medical condition and how did they come to believe that?
>>17683382
I went to a physician when I was 18 after experiencing discomfort using tampons.
I was born with a bone condition too, so I have incredibly narrow hips. I'm only 4'8".
>>17683401
How did they determine you are "narrow"? Did they just look at it and say "yup its narrow"
I'm asking because I've had doctors tell me I was "too narrow" because I couldn't have sex with my bf for a year without it hurting.
Now we have sex without pain. I spent a lot of time thinking there was something wrong with my vagina physically, but it was actually a mental block.
I mean I could be wrong... but if not then I really don't want you to believe some bullshit for your whole life just because one doctor said so.
One doctor told me "you need to have a talk with your bf about whether sex is a deal breaker, and make a decision whether you should stay together since clearly he is too big for you".
My bf does not have a monster cock. I walked out of the office. I researched my condition. I bought dilators and worked on my anxiety/comfort issues. And I fuck my boyfriend and he makes me come and I wish I could shove it in that arrogant doctor's face.
>>17683455
I was having abnormal pain, so I went to a specialist. She didn't see anything strange right away with just a pap test, but shortly after they did some kind of x-ray (like in a big cat scan machine?)
Sorry, this was over 10 years ago, so I don't really remember. I just remembering her telling me to be very careful when having vaginal intercourse, and to stick to pads if I could.
>>17683574
You should try dilators and look up a protocol to cure vaginismus, just in case they help you. If they don't then eh... maybe your doctors were right.