i have an issue cumming when me and my fwb have sex i habitually

>>17681341
do i just stop watchin porn and having sex for a bit?

>>17681343
Stop masturbating for a week, than have sex and see if it changed

Had the exact same problem

>>17681349
bless u

>>17681322

There's also absolutely 0 performance anxiety when masturbating as you don't have to worry about satisfying or impressing anyone but yourself. You can look up or think about whatever you want for as long as you want and say/do whatever you need with no regard to anyone else. Harder to do that with a partner.


You also know all your own weak points and hot to get yourself there and when something isn't working, you immediately switch it up. You know which part of your penis is most sensitive, how hard to touch it, how fast to rub it, when to lay off, etc. Your partner doesn't automatically know all that because they aren't you and they aren't psychic so they have to experiment or ask and then try to determine it based on your verbal guidance.

And even with all that- if you masturbate often enough, you'll find that it gets harder and harder to cum unless you've given yourself a break.

And sex is no different.

You cum the fastest when you have the least amount of pressure, the person doing the pleasuring knows your body better, and you haven't cum in a long time,

It's hardest to cum when you feel some pressure, the person doing stuff isn't doing the shit that gets you off, and you've already cum recently (several times recently).