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Over about a month and a half of this past summer, me and a friend from college that I had known for about 9 months prior started becoming romantically involved. About three weeks into whatever-the-fuck-you-want-to-call-it-anymore, she started to sexually pushing me. The softest way I can (and for my own sake will) put is that she sexually coerced me into doing things to her body that I was not comfortable with doing yet.
After a few more weeks of this, I decided to break things off but didn't have the heart to tell her the biggest reason why. I also believed that I would be too busy with my own academic work once the year of college started again, and I was also dealing with self-harm issues at the time that I needed to sort out (and since she dealt with similar mental illness, that environment would not be healthy). She was of course heartbroken...
...and here we are three months later, her entire friend group and herself both blocking me on all social media and taking alternate routes to classes so they don't even have to look at me (which it's a small campus, so it's fairly common). She told her friend group that I had sexually pushed her (which is a bit narcissistic now that I look at it) and this, of course, has left me angry.
So, /adv/, how do I either A) contact any one of them about the situation to try to resolve things while keeping my cool, or B) cope with this and let it be so it's not on my mind all the god damn time.
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B
It won't do you any good to pursue A. All of you involved will simply be more hurt.
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>>17679619
>>17679627
...so how should I do that.
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>>17679604
Do u go to bard?
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>>17679604
So you fucked her and dumped her. No wonder everyone is angry with you.
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>>17679604
>her entire friendgroup
So they aren't your friend group.
Why do you give a fuck? They weren't your friend group before you were with her, it's no difference now.
You can't resolve it, they'll take her side every time unless you saved some kind of evidence, and if you actually do have evidence and decide to go that route, you're in for headache and drama.
Fuck them.
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>>17679642
We never had sex. She coerced me into eating her out once which I wasn't ready to do yet.
>>17679636
Nah, man.
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Why do you need to be in contact with suck a lunatic or her friends. Even if she wouldn't have talked shit about you to her friends you still most likely wouldn't hang with them or they wouldn't even say hi to you. They are her friends not yours.
Just let them make their lives more difficult if they want by avoiding you.
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>>17679655
The main reason I care is because I'm obviously causing this person a lot of pain if they deem it necessary that they need to backtrack around campus on their way to class.
And I used to be friends with a couple of people in their friend group. That's changed, obviously.
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>>17679670
Stop caring about them. Its not your responsibility. You didn't actually do anything to anyone. She just got butthurt that you dumped her.
Also you are blowing it up in your head. It isn't like some life altering pain to avoid your friends ex. They will stop caring about avoiding you in few months. Just ignore them.
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>>17679661
eating her pussy is sex OP
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