Have you ever been in a failing relationship, /adv/? I see how

She proved to you that she doesn't want you by cheating on you.

>while she gradually works up the courage to break up with me, because that's the least I could do for her.

If she WANTS to break up and wants it to happen then you'd be doing her a favor and end it for her. She might not be ending it because she thinks you can't handle it (and maybe you can't).

>She already cheated on me and I tried taking her back, but I can't do it. I can't trust her. I should have ended it then.

I had a relationship like this once. I did marry her and ended up realizing I couldn't shake what she did and eventually we just split up but it wasn't directly for that reason.

>>17677735
She cheated on her (now) ex with me, and broke off another relationship while we were dating. After I confronted her she swears those were the only ones and she only wants me. But she's still being shady or I'm being paranoid.

I'm so confused and I don't know if she's being genuinely remorseful and I want to believe she is. I also feel like a scumbag for taking her back.
>>17677737
>She might not be ending it because she thinks you can't handle it (and maybe you can't).

I can, and I've typed up everything I'm prepared to say to her. I've also considered this might be what's holding her back.

I've been coming to terms with everything since she cheated but I don't want to put her through all of this stress of admitting what she did and feeling guilty (?) just to break up with her. I want to believe her so badly, but every instinct that told me she was cheating is telling me she's lying and I need to get out.

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>>17677758
>After I confronted her she swears those were the only ones
>Ones
>One(s)

BREAK IT OFF LAD

Ugh, find an answer, I'm in the same situation and need one. Except I'm the girl.

You know, it seems you're not happy. It's not because of the relationship, you just seem to want somebody there for you; and that's the definition of a babysitter. If you're depending on someone else to feel happy, then you're doing something wrong.

This whole time, you've been talking about her, and nothing of yourself. Who are YOU? Do you need her? Like someone else said in another topic: if you can't afford to love yourself, how are you capable of loving anyone else? (Or, how is anyone capable of showing you love, if you don't even appreciate yourself?)

>>17677931
No, this has to do with the relationship which I am still hurt from, and I'm not depending on someone else but I see where you're coming from.

You don't need anyone. I want to believe I would not be fucked over again.
>>17677905
Does your name start with a D? If so, check your Skype.

Otherwise? It's a dead relationship. Break up with him.

Honestly bruv, I was in a relationship with a girl like that. She cheated on me, I gave her a second chance. Worst mistake ever. I got suspicious and found out it happened again, broke it off immediately.

1 year later, happy as larry, yet depressed because havent found another yet and I was in the last one so long (age 13-17) that I pretty much forgot how to talk to pick up girls.