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I'm married and my partner and I haven't had sex in

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I'm married and my partner and I haven't had sex in 10 months. Is this normal? I've never been in a ltr before. I try to initiate sex and he turns me down every time. I've brought it up with him and he says "I don't always feel like it, you're acting stupid, we'll do it tomorrow (and then don't)". Every other aspect of our lives is normal, like we don't fight huge amounts and we're financially stable. What can I do? I feel like he's not attracted to me anymore or I'm not good enough.
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>>17677563
>fight huge amounts
So y'all already fighting lol
But seriously tho, unless you guys have a new baby or already had a kid prior, you should be sexing like rabbits all the time.
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>>17677610
Isn't it normal to fight? They're never big fights just silly little ones that are sorted soon after.
We have no kids. There is nothing going on in our lives that would prevent sex. We have our own house and no one around to stop us. Except him obviously.
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>>17677563
are you ugly or being cheated on?
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>>17677563
without more info, it sounds like he just has a really low libido.
You need to communicate that you have needs that are not being met. if he loves you he will make the effort.
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>>17677563
Hoe long were you together before getting married? This is what worries me about people's thinking.
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>>17677563
It is clearly not normal. We cannot know the cause tho.
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Are you fat/unattractive or letting yourself go? Does he watch porn? Could he have low test? Is he depressed? Is he fat?
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What an odd problem. This is not topical male behavior. Think back, does he have performance anxiety (weak errections, premature ejaculations)? Is he an older guy? Recent death in the family or sudden change in his job? I never say no to sex , and my wife is 50. So it's not you. Get to the bottom of it.
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My guy is the same way. He seems to over extend himself at work and then smokes weed all evening.

I think it's the weed and junk food desu.
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http://thelastpsychiatrist.com/2008/04/the_sexstarved_wife.html
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>>17677563
You probably got fat
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you let yourself go... or you are boring in bed and it has become mechanical. He probably is jacking it off to some sweet porn, and you just dont do it for him anymore.
Whatever you currently do in bed.. the same positions.. change it up, if you are quiet.. be loud.. opposites day.
Fresh meat day.. literally just cover your head with the blankets and let him go to town on your body without your face. I suggest reading 'The Sex God Method - Daniel Rose... great book.
If that dont work.. find some college boys to run a train on you.

Also there is a chance he got herpes from some slut he was cheating on you with.. and now he needs to wait till the bumps go back down.
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