I'm 23, just graduated, have a great high paying job, nice

>>17676614
Forever alone :(

>>17676614
Just saw a great quote that describes me well fml:

http://thoughtcatalog.com/johanna-mort/2015/10/read-this-if-you-feel-like-youre-going-to-be-single-forever/

>You feel as if Life has moved on without you and as more and more time passes you have less and less of an idea of where you’re even supposed to start.

>>17676614
What do I do

> She was my entire life
That's mistake #1.

Mistake #2 is letting this destroy you so much. I mean, hurting is normal, that's a 4 year relationship that just ended even if it was LDR.
But you're done with school, you have a great job, you're decent looking, you live on your own.
Life's going pretty fucking great for you, don't let a woman leaving you ruin all that.

>>17676614
Time to take your life back. That's why you don't form an identity around another person. You have to internalize happiness. If you want something you have to get it yourself. Don't expect anything from anyone.

>>17676698
>>17676716
You're right. It just felt so nice for someone to actually love and like me for once. So I become obsessed with her. She was obsessed with me too when we were in our good years. We loved each other equally. But she's a bitch and a hypocrite and is too judgemental and her love for me lessened while mine for her still hasn't. Now I'm stuck loving someone who doesn't love me anymore.

a LDR isnt a relationship. girls need to be close to their partners to connect and feel safe. and because you were so far from her she had to find somebody closer.

you are 23 you are just starting out, and life hasnt really begun to fuck you up yet. time for you to focus on yourself people will come and go from your life. pay attention to the ones that stay. if they are being negitive give them the flick. its that simple.

>>17676762
I have nobody in my life though, I have no friends, I live in an expensive town so there are no single girls it's only nerdy software guys living here.

>>17676780
you are still young, like i said plenty of time to make some nerdy friends... might even lead to a better job, with a promotion in another town but you wont know until you try.