So I've got a problem
>Be me
>Have gf
>I work gf goes to uni
>she's explaining a story
>accidentally slips us
>speaks about some super hot chad
>talks about how she really likes him
>I point this out
>she pulls a complete 180
>starts apologizing
>says she didn't mean it
>keeps trying to convince me she loves me
>I don't believe her
>tell her I need time to think
>she suddenly stops texting me
What do I do?
>>17676050
Move on, OP. IT's hard to gauge what exactly happened in the end by just reading
"Keeps trying to convince me she loves me, I don't believe her"
But depending on how it ended after you told her you need time to think, she probably assumed it was impossible to salvage the situation.
In any case, if you're uncomfortable with what she said, maybe it's time to get out.
>over text
>tell her I need time to think
>she suddenly stops texting me
that seems like the rational thing to do from her perspective, no? You declared you need alone-time, so she leaves you alone? She's probably waiting for you to come back from your "time to think".
Also, I would not want a relationship where I can't point out when I like people of my SO's gender. Total feeling of uneasiness. I would not disclose a single intimate thing about my life to such a partner, cause I would get judged for it.
>>17676086
anon I guess you purposefully ignored she realized she was gushing over this guy and was a bit much and apologized after OP pointed it out. There is admiration and being fond of someone but there is a line crossed when it is adoration.
I don't think OP's gf even realized how this sounds to other people and she is likely taking some time to think through her real feelings for the new guy and her feelings for OP. She could decide she has a real romantic crush and want to pursue it or stop it right now and refocus on her relationship. Usually when it's gone this far and it is apparent to those around her, including her SO, she will choose the former.
Well you are the weaker link in this case. You've stepped aside and she's free for the taking now. Grow some balls fag.
>>17676050
She got bored with you.
>>17676050
what exactly did she say about him? how did it fit into the story?
>be you
>get hotter girlfriend
>make ex jealous
>keep her on hook