Premature ejaculation problems.
Had three sexual partners over the last 8 years or so, long term relationships, all of them were virgins at the time, sex was normal, after the last breakup I had a dry spell lasting over a year, I wasn't really interested in anyone and since I have a pretty low sex drive I haven't looked for hookups either.
A few weeks ago, I decided to do something about my life, moved away, started living with my good female friend of five years, started looking for a job etc.
After a while she suggested we hookup, and I agreed since I wanted to try a relationship with no strings attached but each time we tried having sex I literally came after just a thrust or two.
Tbh I don't think I ever had a positive sexual experience in my life, I wasn't abused or anything like that, I just don't seem to enjoy sex as much as my friends.
Got any tips for me? I'm getting pretty desperate.
If you don't enjoy it, why do you think you cum so quickly?
Is there a lot of foreplay? Do you feel close to cumming during foreplay and then move onto fucking because you're reaching that point of orgasm? Or is it literally just the process of sticking your dick in her and pumping a bit that makes you cum?
How often do you masturbate? Particularly, when you have sex, how long has it been since the last time you did?
>>17675831
Beats me, even when I cum I feel no pleasure.
Yeah, but I tried to move to fucking and ended up with the same results, on one occasion she didn't touch me even once and I still ended up cumming once I got inside.
>>17675845
Masturbating once or twice a week is usually enough for me, when I had sex regularly I didn't masturbate at all.
I tried masturbating a few hours before sex, I tried going at it again after cumming but I still cum too soon even the second time.
The same with/without condoms ? Are you cut ?
You cum without even enjoying it ?
>>17676064
Uncut, always with a condom.
Yeah, the feeling is kinda better when masturbating.