I have a real problem. During sex, my gf can have trouble getting

Time for a new gf, OP.

Explain to her the importance of lube

>>17675096
She said she doesn't want to use it because she read on the internet somewhere that lube can cause holes in condoms (?)

>>17675075

"doesn't like foreplay" ... no.

How old is she? She sounds immature as fuck.

Cuddling/making out and touching each other should be the first 10-15 minutes before you start fucking. Her not liking any of that and asking you to just "fuck already" and then complaining about it should show you how she feels about you. Get someone who desires you and wants you.

>>17675102
She needs to get her facts straight.
Yes, it is true that a silicone based lube doesn't go with a condom.
However, water based lubes do go with condoms! Also, have you tried prelubricated condoms?

>>17675105
Hold on, she wants me. The problem is, as you said, that I feel like she's immature around sex in general.

She's 18, she had not even been fingered before me, I'm her first everything. And she doesn't watch porn. And doesn't masturbate anymore, according to her. So I think she never had much of an idea really, and maybe that's why she gets self conscious. For example, she wants to leave giving me a bj for AFTER sex, when it should come first, to get me more excited and all.

Most of all, it's just really difficult to get in a dry vagina. I've been thinking lately I could never be a rapist.

>>17675109
I've never found the lubricated condoms to be enough. Maybe it's just the type I use, but they're never very lubricated at all.

We used lube like two times and it was really easy, amazing sex, so it's a shame.

>>17675113

That's exactly what foreplay is for, you two should not be having any kind of sex until she is wet enough naturally. Make out with her until that happens, just embrace each other passionately for a while until she feels comfortable and it should happen naturally. Maybe she feels like you're putting too much pressure on her for sex, if you show her you're not in a rush and are happy even just kissing or cuddling without it leading to anything then she might be able to unwind a little more and enjoy the process.

>>17675075
Romance

Men are aroused physically, women mentally. A loving word or non-sexual hug or caress early in the evening will go a long way to making her ready later.

spit on her pussy.

>>17675075
Sounds like she isn't relaxed around you and doesn't find you attractive. You should be able to get a girl wet just by kissing her, unless her pussy is defective

>>17675075
get a gf that is not broken/retarded

Some people are naturally drier. I know I am, especially at certain times of my cycle.

You should really try to ease her fears on lube. Do the research with her to find one that doesn't mess with the kind of condoms you use, and the use it.

I also suggest bringing her to orgasm before penetration, too. That can really help with wetness.

>>17675715
spit on your dick.

>>17675075
lube= alcohol burns
foreplay=you suck at it
wet=ur dick is too big or ur boring

>>17675075
Foreplay will help, but its the same as a man not being able to get hard.

Except you can solve it by using lube.