>None of my friends ever invite me to hangout >None of

>>17674487

Might need to self-evaluate a bit and figure out the reasons why this is, are you a downer to be around? Are you uninteresting? Do your friends appear like they actually like you despite not inviting you places?

One thing I've learnt is it always takes one person to make the effort, so these other people in your life might be in the same boat and it takes you to initiate something to get the ball rolling. Try asking your friends to hangout, ask your coworkers if they are doing anything, or organise a work gathering on the weekend.

Unless you're very unappealing to be around it is most likely just in your head, most people want to socialise and hang out.

>>17674487

Sure man I used to know that feel. I changed myself so I no longer ever have to experience that.

Question is: Will you change yourself or stay in the same place you are now?

>>17674487
Do you invite any of your friends to hang out? Or any of your coworkers to lunch? If you don't make an effort to interact with people, they won't make any effort to interact either. Especially if they themselves aren't lonely at the moment and have no real reason to actively seek new friends.

>>17674487
I was exactly the same in high school, so I moved to a different city for uni and changed my mindset.

If your friends are doing something you want to be a part of, just ask, the worst that can happen is they'll say no, in which case fuck them.

Or just get comfortable being alone. I did that before I moved, and it worked great, but now I'm a little socially weird.

I know the feel. Even though I try to hang out with my friends, they go out without me and barely tried to hide it. Sucks bro but gotta roll with the punches and move on

>>17674504
I could be a downer sometimes I guess, but whenever I do actually hangout with people we all seem to have a good time.

>>17674505
What did you change?

>>17674618
Yeah I could make more of an effort of inviting people out.

>>17674625
Good advice, thank you.

>>17674487
Do YOU ever reach out to your friends or co-workers? Are you ever the guy who says "Why don't we all do X this weekend?"

If you don't reach out to them, they will conclude that You don't like THEM, and they will respect your privacy by not imposing themselves on you.