>couldn't get hard having sex with girl, we did other

Take up a hobby like martial arts or some other form of physical exercise as it will both keep you healthy and fit with the added benefit of learning and improving a skill. Other things could be music, films etc etc learn to be creative or if it comes down to it you could always take up an anti-masturbation religion lol.

Not getting hard has nothing to do with how many rounds you have in the the cylinder.

It's about nerves.
You were anxious to have sex for the first time in 3 years. Huge pressure.

You need to chill. Ironically, there is a specific amount of whisky you can drink to help.
Or you can chill in other ways.

More pressure, the less your dick wants to perform

>>17674245
That too but hobbies are also good

>>17674214
Why do people make this assumption that there's no middle ground between jerking it every day all the time and going full no fap chastity belt weirdo. Geez man, just practice some moderation and try to do it no more than 3 times a week.

>>17674214
Shit on yourself and rub the poopoo into your face and eyes.

>>17674270
No just what the other guy said you normie fuck

>>17674283
Clearly someone isn't jerking off enough

>>17674278

My exact thoughts, i masturbate whenever i'm stressed or bored, i don't have time to jerk off multiple times a day or watch hours of porn.

>>17674287
I jerked off 10 minutes ago I'm just inflammatory. I also strongly believe other anon is completely right.

>>17674289
You have your opinion and I have mine

>start gym
>run few times a week
>quit porn
>eat healthy
>Do alot scretching
Doing something to your body makes you more sexual and overcome that fear of failure.

>>17674214

Jerking off sounds like a reasonable explanation but I often think it's just the first time nerves with a new person. Same thing happened to me with my ex, I had consumed some alcohol which gave me something to blame but I knew it was the nerves. The next time it didnt happen cause I felt more comfortable and horny, but then it resurfaced a couple more times here and there. All in the beginning though, you get over it.

I'd recommend lots and lots of foreplay, take it really slow, lots of kissing and cuddling etc.

Thanks guys. We previously had bottomless mimosas and were bought feeling the effects of it. She couldn't get off either.

I'm just going to start running again and not jerk off as much.