>it's my buddies birthday today, there's a party

bampu

>>17673599
Sorry to hear about your cat, man. That's always fucking tough.

Just go to the party, let loose and try to have some fun despite your ex being there. Moping looks pretty attractive right now but you need to be active in combating those negative feels.

>>17673630
thanks nigga
I'm gonna go and see how it is

>>17673658
Have fun tonight dude

Stay with your cat. You will never get back the time you dont spend with it now that it will die soon. My cat died 4 days ago and I still regret letting her die alone even though I was there for her the whole month before her death

well I went to the party, took part in numerous drinking games, made some friends, and didn't sperg out when coming in contact with my ex and her new bf
I think I did pretty good tonight,

>>17674643
Now tend to your fucking cat and give it the best week ever so you can better come to terms with the feels when it's gone.

>>17674645
I've been doing exactly that mang, the lil nigga is just sleeping under my bed on a towel all the time now, and just gets up every now and then to eat occasionally
got him a heating pad, and been getting him the best food available, that I can't even properly afford right now so he can have the best time possible in whatever time he has left

>>17673599

How long since the break up? Were your buddy and your ex friends before you dated her? Did she introduce you to him or did you introduce him to her?

If you feel like he owe's his loyalty to you then he should not have invited her knowing the position it puts both of you in, if he owe's it to her then he shouldn't have invited you. Either way he sounds like a bit of a dick, either that or doesn't think about how things will affect others. Maybe have a chat with him about it, saying you want to go but aren't going to be comfortable with your ex there.

>>17674668
my ex and my buddy both became f
riends at roughly the same time, and when we broke up he asked me if it was cool for him to invite her to parties I'd be going to, I said yeah because I didn't really have any hard feelings over it, I just miss having someone, especially right now
it's never normally anything even close to an issue, but with my little buddy on deaths doorstep, emotionally, my shit is fucked

>>17674676

Fair enough man, I didn't read further ahead and looks like you already went and had a good time so good job on that front. Sorry to hear about the little guy, he's had a good life, just remember that.