Sexually I'm a bit bored of my boyfriend. I love him. Don't get me wrong but there's a lot of things I wanna try in bed with him, that I don't know how to bring up to him. He seems pretty vanilla. The weirdest thing we've done is anal. And that was just once. How do I know if he feels the same way I do about this stuff? Do I just upfront ask him, or do guys not like that?
This is not a hard problem to solve. Just communicate to him.
>>17672112
I just fear scaring him when I bring up the things I wanna do.
>>17672105
>Do I just upfront ask him
do this. most people have wierd fetishes but they dont bring it up because they are afraid of their partner freaking out. Look up the most searched for porn for example.
>>17672127
Some of my fetishes are femdom. I don't know he'd take that. I do wanna try being a sub too, but dom is where my interests lie.
>>17672105
what the fuck is that thing
>>17672133
you should bring it up. even if he isnt into it, its not like he is going to freak out. its a normal fetish. if he loves you, he should at least try it.