Hey /adv/, I just wrote out a fairly long post, but actually I've decided it can be summed up quicker than that
At a work party last night (around 30 of us, all in our 20s), I ended up getting off with someone I'm usually really good friends with. I think we've always both liked each other, but she has a boyfriend, who she sometimes brings out, and who also gets on with everyone else
It was pretty hard to miss us as we walked around holding hands, kissing, and dancing together most the night. But now I feel a bit odd... Not really regretful (I don't really regret anything I've ever done)... But I'm concerned how our colleagues are going to see us now. And what happens between me and her
>What do I say if people ask me about it?
>What should I do regarding her? Just act like it never happened?
Congrats, everyone now knows how shit both of you are. Just wait until everyone feels awkward when he's around and he slowly puts two and two together
>>17671588
I'm the guy
But yeah, that was my concern to be honest
Anyway I can rectify this a bit? If people don't bring it up, should I just bring it up to those I'm closest to?
>>17671588
>>17671592
Ooh, her boyfriend. Yeah, I didn't consider that
She's having a birthday party in a couple of weeks... I guess I should probably make an excuse about how I can't go now...
>>17671576
You dun goofed OP.
Time to find a new job.
>>17671592
The only way you can rectify this is by quitting and never staying in contact with her or anyone else. She might be ostracised, but that's less your problem. They all now know you're the sort of asshole who would get with someone who's in a relationship, and she's a cheater. I don't know if your coworkers are particularly laid back or what, but most people wouldn't be comfortable around people like that, especially if one of their SOs was right in front of them.
>>17671597
Sounds like it's the beginning of the end