ls a life of bad sex worth a gf that's perfect in every

>>17671082
Bad sex likely isn't the root of the problem, merely a symptom.

So maybe - I don't know you or your gf.

Bad sex is better than being with someone unattractive

Bad sex is almost always a curable disease.

So yeah.

Why is is bad?

>>17671089
False and shallow.

>>17671101
Not necessarily and yes.

>>17671092
l have a high libido and enjoy fucking and trying new things. She is extremely vanilla and doesn't care to try and experiment.

>>17671111
Just wait for sexbots then you'll be good.

>>17671111
Nice quads.

Anyway, I'd say the best way to deal with this is to start on her level. Slowly work your up to the stuff you want to try.

Let's say she's super vanilla. Missionary, and only missionary. Then try out some variant, there's thousands. Imagine it like letting a dog sniff your hand before you pet it. Show her gradually that "Oh, this isn't so bad. Yeah I could get used to this."

Never rush it though. Like the dog, if you introduce something too crazy too quickly she'll get scared and retreat to safety. If she's not up for something one night then "We'll try it another time, no problem."

And despite all your best efforts there will be places she will draw a line. This take a lot of work to get over and are often not rational. Just move on from these for now. This lets her know you're only going to take it as far as she allows; that SHE is in control, not you.

Hope this helps Anon. Happy pegging or whatever freaky shit your into. ;)

>>17671131
thanks, friend. l'll try.

>>17671082
no. go to a sex therapist or couples counselor together and work out your sexual differences.

>>17671082
>is a car with no engine worth getting if it's great in all other ways?
>is a giant hole in the back worth a coat that's perfect in every other way?
>should I eat this meal if it tastes terrible but everything else about it is fantastic?
Uh, no? Are you retarded? Just be friends with the perfect frigid girl and find a fuckbeast for a girlfriend.

>>17671101
This is what ugly people say to make themselves feel better about their bedroom affairs being the aesthetic equivalent of two swine mating

>>17671616
>should I eat this meal if it tastes terrible but everything else about it is fantastic?
Are you fat?

>>17671616
This is retarded.

Just do what this guy said. >>17671131

Jesus Christ. You know there's more to making a good partner then good sex + being a good friend.

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>>17671637
Funny that you say that because you probably look like pic related.

>>17671637

I think you've got something of a point. I'm ugly and fat, and part of the reason I wouldn't want to have sex is that it would probably be gross.

>>17671082
>>17671111
Is it really bad, or is it actually OK, but not frequent and/or exotic enough for your tastes? Because there's something to be said for learning to enjoy the simple things in life, instead of always chasing after a new high (which will only last for a while, after which the goalposts get moved again).

If she's perfect in every other way, and you love each-other, then stay together. Maybe try >>17671131 to expand her horizons a bit, but definitely also just work on yourself.

>>17671082
Oldfag here.

I've been in your place. I tried to convince myself I could live without good sex, and maybe I could have. But while I was trying, it became clear that she wasn't perfect in every other way.

As someone said, it was a symptom, and I discovered a not-obvious-at-the-start pattern of emotional closedness, control-freakness and selfishness that the bad sex was just a surface piece of.